My ex is acting like she NEEDS me can u give LOST GUY YOUR OPINION..THANKS?

Question

ok my ex dumped me 3.5 months ago because she thought i had given up on our relationship witch is not true but that’s how she felt...witch i think was just a miss understanding in both our parts...well after she dumped me we talked for the first 10 days and then i cut communication and all contact with her because she got a new boy friend rite away and well I figured she dumped me for him....anyways she would always message me on msn and call but i would never reply....until Thursday we were talking and i figured out that she really misses me...she told me she missed me and she was crying and she told me that she can't move on with her life without me in it and that she NEEDS me in it...now my question is was this guy just a rebound and she wants me but needs time or is it truly over because I love her so much and we dated for 3 years 9 months and I’m only 19 and she's 18...should we slowly start to talk again? what would u do?
THANKS
and she's still with him
p.s. I’m best friends with her bro and
slept over there last night and woke up for work at 630 and she was also getting ready for work, and in a very interested conversation making voice she said. You work 2day and all i said was yes and she asked me if i wanted her to make me something to eat...I don’t just more details

Answer 1

She doesn't know what she wants. DON"T THINK LOVE HOLDS ALL THE ANSWERS!!! People are such fools they think love is always going to save them, does it save a melested kiddo for their father? NO! Does it save abused spouses from there abusers? NO!!! SO ITS NOT GOING TO SAVE YOU AND HERE!!!! THe point is, if you need her, if you want her, then don't dare just do it for loves sake. It better be fore a purpose, die old together, have kids, save the world from liberals!!! I DON'T CARE!!!!! But without that purpose this all doesn't matter, the love will only save the both of you for so long before your both sitting there wondering is this all there is...... but thats what broke it up in the frist place, she did fall out of love with you, you both didn't miscommunicate, it all stems from the fact neither of you has a purpose with the other, other then love..... its not enough... so unless you guys can talk deeper about the truth, then no, theres nothing you can do with her but get more heartache....