that everyone knows who iam, and im being alienated.
im being prevented from reaching my goals in life, being prevented from reaching my dreams....which are to leave britain, to build a new life....i want to emigrate back to france or the us.
but i believe the british people are persecuting me, keeping me here, in britain and hampering everything i try to do.
i have BPD and have had life very tough..im 30 now.
i live alone....very lonely, and keep thinking about my goals in life.....which is to move away, build a new life, away from britain.
are you going to help me, or are you just going to answer this question and be against me and belittle me like the rest of them are?
2007-10-02 00:48:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
dont want your pertinant condesending answer winnethepoo...with your british hierachy...take that elsewhere
2007-10-02 01:41:23 · update #1
what exactly are these "people" doing to you that is stopping you from living your dream? there are many ways to acomplish the things you are trying to acomplish...You say that you are lonely...WHY??? I can help you there at least. I would like to talk if you could find the time. I am a 27 yr old female. I live in FL and have been going through hell here so dont be so hard on yourself, things will look up , sooner or later... they have to. And in the meantime, let me know if there is ANYTHING i can do to help you.
2007-10-02 01:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sexykel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi...
I think that if you look back at answers to your other questions, you might find that some people gave good advice, hon.
I know the mental health system in the UK stinks, because i have a friend over there who has issues and it's been a long, hard road for him...
Have you done a yahoo search for BPD forums or BPD CHAT? There is a lot of information on the internet, for those of us who do our research.
I have bipolar disorder, and i know how tough it is to live with mental illness.
NO one can help us but ourselves... take what advice you need and leave the rest.
I wish you all the best.
2007-10-02 03:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's all part of your sickness. You've posted these same thoughts a few times now. I hope the therapy you are waiting for will do you some good. Be realistic and rational, how can everyone be against you. You don't know everyone and everyone doesn't know you. Why not take Sexykel up on her offer to correspond. It might help you to talk with someone who is going through similar things.
2007-10-02 02:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guarantees but this might have to do with what one religion calls Karma. There is an old practice in Catholic Christianity called "compunction" which also might be similar. You might be being called out on some bad present day behavior by unseen forces. Try praying for mercy (relief from the anguish), and try to get to the bottom of what behavior of yours you can change now, and what you can work toward changing in the future. Please understand that your government, I believe, has your best interests in mind, and that governments are in a constant process of trying to perfect every one of their population. Look and see if you can recognize some things that were goals of yours that have been met, and try to see this as a form of structuring your life to win more and to achieve more goals met.
2007-10-02 01:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't matter what the answers are. You're not going to understand that your life is in your hands and that you're responsible for it.
It's a lot easier to put the blame on others, it takes the perception of responsibility out of you and give you some moral leverage.
Anyway, you know who I am. I'm here to destroy that little shelter of self confidence where we cornered you...
Wake up and get your butt in motion!!!! Do you really think you're so valuable that EVERYONE around you is trying to ruin your life? Do you truly believe that people around you waste time and resources against you?
Yours is a very common complaint. It's not about everyone against you, it's about everyone around you not doing for you what you should be doing.
And why would they?
Change your perception and get to work on your problems.
I should charge you for this session...
2007-10-02 01:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel this way a lot. Makes me hate people because until they have been there themselves they really don't know how you feel. If your goal is to move then save up and move. You can do this. Hopefully you will meet someone you can confide in and that will help a lot. Will be praying that all goes well.
2007-10-02 00:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by devannichole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been diagnosed then go get the help that comes with it as another poster said its not that the world and its people are against you its how you view the world that is causeing you distress this needs to be balanced. Take care
2007-10-02 01:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would try to get out as hard as u can. if u really feel persecuted, find someone you trust and ask them to help you.
2007-10-02 00:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by lahdeia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋