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How could anyone love the person who is abusing their baby?

That was the whole point of my earlier post about abusers. Suddenly, everyone could see how sick it is to love that person. It's disgusting and betrayal.

2007-10-01 16:20:27 · 10 answers · asked by lookingforinfo 2 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

God is a person not a whiskey. He claims to have control over every single thing. Should i be grateful that he hurts my child everyday?

2007-10-01 16:26:12 · update #1

I deliberately left the previous question vague enough to be taken as a human abuser, to make people admit that if God is a person and claims to have all control, he is himself responsible for my child's pain every single day, directly or indirectly and i would be a horrible person if i overlooked that, much less embraced him!!!!!

2007-10-01 16:28:27 · update #2

God needs to pick one choice. Either he's loving or he's in control.
No(((( loving)))) God would allow children to hurt that way.

2007-10-01 16:30:02 · update #3

Better question. Why torture the innocent?

2007-10-01 16:32:59 · update #4

When it come judgement time, I will demand explanation.

2007-10-01 16:33:46 · update #5

Yes,the HE i mean is god himself. he is allowing my child to suffer with illness and i'm not going to just sit back and take it. i'm not going to thank him, praise him, or beg him to stop.

2007-10-01 16:37:34 · update #6

No. My baby was given no choice. God made him sick and he is just a little innocent baby. The "fall" isn't a good enough answer. God is in control, right? He could stop hurting little children anytime he wanted to.

2007-10-01 16:42:25 · update #7

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If your kid is being abused, its not because of God. If its physical scars, its probably a bully or maybe he was just rough housing with a friend. Talk to him and ask him who's doing it.


Dont say God is abusing your child for he may not even be real or he may be I dont know....but is he is, he would be peace loving, not a child abuser.

2007-10-01 16:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

PLEASE- whatever you do, you cannot be blaming God for the abuse of your child, I am not reading this right am I? Your hubby or bf is the guilty one here. You need to get away from the abuser. We live in a fallen world, God wanted us to have a perfect relationship with Him, but we chose not too- you have a choice now- trust God, and leave the guy that is hurting your child, because if you don't you will be held accountable- God is warning you to leave, not causing the abuse.

2007-10-01 23:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by AdoreHim 7 · 2 0

There is no way that you could say that God is abusing your child nor abusing any of His creatures. You ought to know that God is fair with his dealings with his people although you hate Him for no reason at all. Whether you respect, love and obey him or not, it is the same God love you however come judgement time, you will suyffer the penalties.
jtm

2007-10-01 23:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 3 0

Trust me, God isn't abusing your child.
Neither is Santa Claus or the Easter Bunny.

If you child is actually being abused, you'd best figure who is doing it, how, and get it taken care of.

Blaming this on religion will just make your kid group up with some seriously screwed up values.

2007-10-01 23:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by Crypt 6 · 3 0

sounds like a lot of pain and confusion is being put on God

of course He can take it

why blame the innocent

2007-10-01 23:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by firechap20 6 · 1 0

First of all, who is HE? Surely you don't mean God is abusing your baby.

So I'm assuming you mean your husband or boyfriend. I can tell you, from my point of view, Yes! But not at the expense of your child's safety. We should love even our enemies. But that doesn't mean we are to let them abuse us, or our children.

You can love him, but not live with him. You can love him, but not allow him to continue to hurt your child. You can love him by reporting his behavior and allowing him to pay the consequences or get help. BUT YOU DO NOT LET HIM CONTINUE HURTING YOUR BABY!

But let me repeat...GOD IS NOT ABUSING ANYONE! God is the one you should be turning to for help.

2007-10-01 23:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by Linda P 2 · 2 0

Why do you blame God? We live in a fallen world..there is going to be misery and suffering..blame our corruptive sin nature if you want to blame something.

2007-10-01 23:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

Should I hate Jack Daniels because my ex used to love drinking it while they cheated on me?

2007-10-01 23:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0 0

Who is it exactly that you're claiming abused a baby? A little clarification is in order, please.

2007-10-01 23:25:45 · answer #9 · answered by N L 6 · 1 0

When you say "HE" are u talking about your spouse or boyfriend? please clarify.

2007-10-01 23:24:06 · answer #10 · answered by ~Anonymous~ 2 · 1 0

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