Im so depressed....?

Question

Okay, dont bash me (people who probally will) well im 15 years old, and yea i have only 1 testicle.... Im sort of chubby, and have low self esteem, im 5'10 173 pounds, not many friends, lately im just fed up with this life and actaully thought about killing my self, i dont kno whats wrong, just thinking about my self now makes sad, and unbareable i dont kno what to do. my parents just got divorced and nothing been going good.... i really sick of my self and hate my self for only having 1 testicle, i really dont know what to do anymore please help me

well there was this whole delema where kids did find out and made fun of me for years and still to this day they do...

Answer 1

I'm guessing the biggest burden you are wearing is your parents getting a divorce. Normally your esteem is strong but for the parents, it makes everything feel like it's building up. I'm guessing you should get with the parents and talk to a professional. The relief you feel expressing the hurt will be such a relief. Yeah, nobody but your future wife has to know about the one testicle. She'll love you so much, she won't even care.

Answer 2

By your height & weight, you sound fine...No one but you needs to know you only have one testicle, either. Plus, you'll have to deal with that all your life, so may as well get used to it now, so no one else worries about it but you, and you'll be used to it sooner if you cope with it. Don't think about yourself. Don't let your image keep you back. Do whatever you want to in life. If you honestly think you're chubby, and you want to fix that, then you can try a diet. As for the divorce, tell them both how you feel. Tell them that it makes you mad that you didn't have a say in it. Do whatever! Vent to anyone you can! If you want, see a counceler, they can help about the image and divorce.

As for killing yourself...don't do it. You'll be comfortable with the divorce soon enough, and the testicle, and if you don't have friends, make some. Join a club and meet some friends there, or join a sport.

Killing yourself is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. If you fail to kill yourself, you'll be even more miserable than before you tried, either locked up in a hospital, or people will think you're crazy...which you're not. You're stressed and confused, correct? If that's a yes, then you'll be better soon enough, but you can't get better if you're dead.

Good luck!

Answer 3

For a start consider the enormous redundancy of the human body. You can donate a kidney and still function normally. One testicle is no obstacle to normal function. Reflect on the good fortune you enjoy by most males carrying round the burden of an unneccessary spare one! We are all trapped alone inside our heads forever. Realise this and deal with it like a man. Do not assume the easy mantle of self pity. You have the required tetosterone level to keep your chin up! (and everything else)

Answer 4

Please cheer up. You will grow beyond your teen years and make your own life a happy one.

I only have one ovary. Kids used to tease me by calling me "Preggy" because I told someone I thought I couldn't get pregnant with one ovary. I gave birth to 3 sons, eventually.

Your parents may be divorced, BUT they LOVE you. They need you to be around and to watch you grow up. Your parents find strength in your life. Did you know that? As a parent, I know that.

You don't sound chubby to me at all. Your height and weight sound perfect.

Go hug your parents, both of them. TALK to them about your sadness. Tell them you love them.

Please hang in there. Sending you loving and peaceful thoughts and hugs.

PS. my former brother-in-law had one testicle. He got a 'testicular implant' to replace the 'missing' one. He said it looked fine, and if he doesn't mention it, no one knows the difference.

The cost of an implant these days is $2,700-3,000. That's cheaper than a car, but may not be covered by health insurance. Get a job, start saving.

Answer 5

please find someone human to talk to! you will be fine one testicle and all it is not uncommon and your life will work out you need something productive to do work out and start living you wont control your parents ever. You are right to think that suicide would punish them though they love you and would miss you and you had nothing to do with their divorce I cant tell you how much I really do care about your question and am sad for you please hang in there and find an adult to trust with these feelings. You will have good things in the future you need a hug!!!

Answer 6

hey don't let only having one testicle make you down. look up :) there are many prospects for you in life. you said that you don't have many friends, but you probably don't realize that friends are there to share love and kindness. and don't kill yourself. even though your parents are divorced, i am about 110% sure that they both think about how much they love you every night before they sleep. don't worry about it too much :) hope this helps a lot!

Answer 7

Hey, I know how you feel. Do not try to kill yourself, no madder what you do you can always trust God. And other people might have it worse than you, so don't feel so bad. Just thank God your alive.
May God blees you

Answer 8

You could try suicide..The after life should be far more interesting
Make a revenge plan...Do it....Then just say your criminally insane when you turn yourself in..Sit in the mental hospital and watch the world turn..enjoy yourself

Answer 9

That's not so bad. Eat a little less and you'll feel better. Drink some coffee.