Nobody cares?? :(?

Question

I'm depressed and my friends won't talk to me .
Everything/everyone is agrivating me and driving me insane! I can't relax or get a decent amount of sleep anymore.

I find myself angry for no reason all the time, and my only good friend who listens to me understands me...

I've told him about what triggered the depression - a breakup that happened ages ago - I'm still kind of friends with him (although i sometimes feel he isnt aware of my excistance) I still love him madly, and have made attempts to get him back - but no luck..hes the only one i ever loved
I'd like to move on, but nobody I meet compare to him :'(

How can i overcome all of these feelings??

Answer 1

you don't say how old you are, but I'm guessing fairly young. you need to find things in your life that you enjoy, and that make you happy. you can't be happy with someone else if you're not happy with yourself first. I did the same thing you are my whole life, and now I'm 30 and wishing I would have spent that time focusing on myself and doing something to make my life better for the future. You have all the time in the world!

Answer 2

You are like a teenager and your depression is very mild for now. Why you were raised as an outsider to the society is a matter of your being. There is however a need to see what is happening around you . Is there a secret meaning to the way you greet a new person? Is there a set of hand signs used by your group? And if there is a second vocabulary how can you discover what it is? Yes there are love pains .They are the acute problem in this depression but it will continue unless you can see to what group your b/f belongs. If he is loyal to other friends how can you fall so much in love with him? There is an insult unto death but it is far from any of your problems.

Answer 3

I care , but even though you dont know me I'm here and can listen.

I once had a crush on a guy that knew I was there but , seemed to ignore me, it crushed my heart tremendously when he left without saying a word to me.


I felt let down and that no one really liked me at all.
Ifound God and He cares. So I talked to Him a lot.
I also wrote a lot of my emotions into journals to release my feelings.
Find a new interest. get into sports or write a story about things that interest you.
take a walk and pay attention to what is around you and how it makes you feel. If he doesnt pay attention to you , then let him alone, Dont chase after him. If he like you then he'll come back to you , if not then he isnt the one for you. Give it time God knows who is best for you. He will bring that person into your life when He knows will be the right time where you'll both know it.

When you find your emotions flying , or running like a rollercoaster, then stop turn around take a few deep breaths, AS DEEP AS YOU CAN and count to 20 , then calm your breathing down to normal. Write why you were angry, and talk to an adult. Love is a gift. Reach out to others around you that you know and focus on something you have in common with them. get involved in activities outside your normal circle of friends.
Like with a youth group at school or a church.
If you have a pet shower it with love and hugs or attention , they'll lower your blood pressure and level out the troubles in your heart. By being around new things you'll find the past is just that the past it's there but cant hold you, and doesnt effect you now unless you want it to.


I lost a fiance a number of years back, I witnessed his death, he got hit from the side while he was on his mootrcycle. I ran out to him and held him while he died. I thought I'd never be able to get over it, it was a few years or struggling with that pain, and trying to move on. When God sent me my husband I'm still with now.
He has helped me through a lot of pains, that haunt me and that I've tried to cast asside but felt they kept coming back.
By clinging to that boy you arent allowing yourself to heal and grow the way you are meant to grow.
Try a few of these things then let me know.

Answer 4

You cannot overcome any feelings you have, nor are you responsible for them. You are only responsible for how you deal with them. They will either go away in the fullness of time, or not. Take the pressure off yourself by realising that you are not in control of your emotions. No-one is! Unfortunately when one begins to self-analyze in this way, sentiment can be eroded, so perhaps better to be grateful that you are full of emotion, even if, at this time, it is not emotion that is bringing you happiness.

Answer 5

Don't see him, accept its over, get on with your life. Really, you can't stay stuck in the past. Not what you want to hear, but it's true.