So there's this guy in my German class. He's way, way too nice. He always holds the door open for me, says thank you, you're welcome, picks up anything I drop, makes sure the aisle is clear before I walk and when I couldn't buy a tape at a store he brought one for me the next day. It's...just too weird. He glances somewhere he's not supposed to though, so is he just trying to get into my pants or something?! It's just too weird. Sorry I'm 15, I'm a bit clueless.
2007-10-01 10:03:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he also lets me copy off his homework lmao.
2007-10-01 10:10:23 · update #1
You have every reason to be nervous, however 30 years go this would have been considered normal. it's sad that because of how much the world's changed we tend to see nice guys as strange now???!! I would say keep soakin up the gentlemanly-ness, but maybe wait til you know him a little better before you are alone with him. You don't want to get yourself into a situation where you might get hurt or worse. I'm assuming that you mean he looks at your chest. Yes, be a little afraid, but I know a few people...women included who have a problem with eye contactand seem to just default to the chest whether they're talking to men or women. They don't even notice they're doing it. I know from a friend, though, that abusers can be charmers. Just have your guard up...you seem to be handling it well...just keep it that way til you feel completely comfortable and confident that you know him enough. This is good advice with any guys, though...not just the nice ones. Never a good idea to dive into uncertainty. Good luck! lemme know how it goes!
2007-10-01 10:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not clueless, you noticed his roving eye. He could just be a really nice guy. You are only obligated to do what you want to do. No one is entitled to get into your pants unless you let them in. This shouldn't be one of your priorities right now. If you like this guy, give him conversation. THAT'S ALL!!! Otherwise, you'll end up in a situation, that you're not ready for. You could always head him off at the path and ask him what he wants from you. Where it goes from that point depends on his answer. You have a right to ask because you have a right to know. Keep your head about you and be careful. You are at a very vulnerable age and a mistake of certain types can ruin your future or at least alleviate a lot of possibilities for you. Just enjoy the chivalry. Smile, blush and stay focused on you.
2007-10-01 10:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by Neva N 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why cant a guy be a gentleman anymore? i do the same stuff you are talking about in here, ive done it all my life, and it doesnt matter if its someone I like or not (though I will do more if I like her). If he is doing all this, he is just trying to show you that he is a good guy, not like all the other guys out there...he's trying to make himself stand out. As far as him "glancing somewhere he isnt supposed to"...thats normal..hes a guy..and a teenage guy at that, so dont pay too much to it.
2007-10-01 10:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by BabyBoi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad to hear that you're careful. When it comes to people, only time will tell. Just make sure you don't get into a close situation with him for a good long time. If he's not for real, it will show before too long. Hopefully, he's just a good guy.
2007-10-01 10:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by Terri J 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are *genuinely* nice.
I am, heck.
One thing though.
He's "a guy."
Sometimes we look. We can't help it.
While, yes, I'm sure he'd like to, he's showing his class by being nice to you.
Some guys are genuinely shy. I'd suggest asking this guy on a few dates, and just get to know him.
2007-10-01 10:07:59 · answer #5 · answered by Josh 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like his parents brought him up right...to be a gentleman. But he's also a male, so you have to expect the glances.
2007-10-01 10:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust him. i have found that there is ALWAYS something wrong with everyone. Every guy has something wrong with them and it does sound like he's trying to get some, i wouldn't fall for it. Use it to your advantage or just get rid of him, whatever makes you comfortable.
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2007-10-01 10:07:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
well he might like you but if u have boobs guys just cant help them selves from looking try confunting him on it
2007-10-01 10:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by Rubyblood 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He likes you, that for sure. Do you like him? If you do then talk to him more often. If not. Sorry!
2007-10-01 10:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by Kyle The King Of Kings 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like somebody likes you...or why would they go thru all of that trouble?
2007-10-01 10:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by goodgirlabout2gobad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋