I'm 14, but i really like this girl and im not the greatest looking guy around and im kinda quiet and stick to my friends, i want to ask her out but im not sure if she even knows if i exist
2007-10-01 09:59:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go over and talk to her
2007-10-01 10:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by ~meg~loves**** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Do you like her only because you think she is attractive? or is she a truly genuine girl. If its only because you think she is hott. then Stop now.
2. If you think she is genuinely an awesome girl then you need to have more confident in yourself and dont be so quiet.
3. Girls can smell your lack of self confidence. So try and not rely so much on your buddies.
4. Most importantly.... you wont know if she likes you unless you discover it for yourself. You can never assume. Ever.
5. Go out there and be a man, my 14 year old buddy.
2007-10-01 17:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by aaroncox07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe....that's hard if you are not good at talking to girls. But if you have a talented tongue, then you wouldn't have a problem. First of, you should know about yourself first. Do you look good, clean, approachable for a girl? Girls are very observant to small things, like even shining your shoes. To the girl you like, observe her too. What she wants to talk about, how she socialize, who she wants to meet, and some of her characteristics.
Noticing you is sometimes hard (specially if she avoids you) and easy. If you get a chance to lookat her and she looks back at you, SMILE at her and just keep looking. If she looks away fast, that could mean she's not interested. If she looks at you I guess a couple of seconds or minutes before looking away.....it could be a hint. You can approach her slowly....but don't bark out senseless things or she will think you're weird. Try to observe her, what she wears, her posture, body (don't look too much on her assets or you would end up a perv)....then try to compliment those things she wore. It's better if you know what she regularly wears and compliment about it....she may think that you are closely observing her and you might be interested to her.
The topics you want to talk to her should be brought about naturally and no need to think too long or you'll end up stuck out of ideas and begin to give her a silent environment. Try asking her interests, things she hates, hobbies, etc. Don't say much about yourself if she ain't asking about it. Try to answer only the things she asks you about.
If you get to have a good bond to her, try asking her out. Not to the movies, or church....bring her to a simple, quiet place where both of you can chat peacefully.
You need practice about it though.....constant exposure to talking to girls will make you have a solid confidence in yourself. Goodluck!
2007-10-01 17:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by Daykapay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to her and tell her hey. If she says your name back she knows you exsist and are important enough to know your name. If she doesn't know your name tell her and maybe also point out if you have any classes with her. Then walk away. Observe her for a wile and if she starts to talk to you more make a move and ask her out. I'm dating a guy right now and he doesn't look to great but he definently has a great personality. Hey I know how it works I'm a thirteen year old girl.
2007-10-01 17:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a girl, this means more than it would from a guy... Trust me, I know how hard it is to ask a person out, let alone talk to him (her in your case). Talk a little bit more with her, get to know her a little bit, then if she reacts as if she's genuinely interested, not just trying to be friendly and kind, ask her out. And that let alone, is worth everything, having the courage to do it is what makes it so worth while.
2007-10-01 17:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by Gigi_dontask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are just as shy as boys. If you want her to notice you just start saying hi to her. Once she begins to say hello to you eventually just ask her how her day was and or how is or was school today, after that I am sure you will figure out the rest. A girl doesn't want to be pestered or for a boy to act like a fool, at this age they want a boy that is mature and nice to them.
2007-10-01 17:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by drehmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just come out and ask her out if she doesn't even know your name. So... you have to get to know her first, that way at least you can decide whether or not you even really like her! Lol. Just go up to her one of these days and say hello. Or just talk about something that you think she finds interesting. If you have a class together, that's the easiest way to talk to her about something.
Best of luck dude.
2007-10-01 17:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by Edith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up and smell the coffee, girls only like boys that are confident ...... and it would be a plus if u were good looking but we can work with this .... just ask her out ... ull get used to the rejections, then it wont be so hard asking a girl out!
2007-10-01 17:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by heavy_d65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch her eye. Look into her eyes, for a beief few moments, than look away. Do that a few times. See how that works. Remember to smile when you are looking into her eyes. Than slowly start talking to her. See where it goes. Good Luck
2007-10-01 17:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by Sweetblue85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats her name? I would say wait but get to know her as friends then maybe when your 17 or 18 ask her out otherwize it would be dum cause you can't even drive!
2007-10-01 17:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by *Kirby* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Borrow a notebook or a pencil or pen to get the conversation started. Then ask her for a date!
2007-10-01 17:02:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋