my boyfriend kissed another girl he said it was an acident that she really kissed him!! he said i should break up with him cause he was tired of hurting girls! he cryed and he NEVER crys! i asked if he wanted me to break up with him and he said he really didn't want me to! but im not so sure! we decided to forget about it! does he want me to break up with him or not im so confused!!
2007-10-01 09:54:38 · 10 answers · asked by ..l* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's telling you flat out that he wants his freedom. Give it to him. He's not worth it and can probably cry at the drop of a hat. You deserve better. Oh, and that "accidental" kiss...yeah, right. If you believe that.....
2007-10-01 10:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by Barbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey .... I'm not a guy but just wanted to comment on this one, anyway.
Hard to say for sure because he sounds like he's not sure what or WHO he wants, but I would say his actions are saying that he's not ready to commit.
When a boy says that he is tired of hurting girls, that is a HUGE red flag! Obviously, his behaviour hasn't been that great in the past.
This is coming from experience .... I would say he's probably not worth it.
But that's only my opinion.
You have to make decisions for your own life and what's good for you. Just keep your eyes wide open, girl!
2007-10-01 17:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by prairieprincess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no such thing as an accedental kiss, same thing happened to me (but with a girl) and what i say is unless theres a gun or knife pointed at you, you can defend yourself from a kiss.
and it seems like he likes you AND this other girl, I backed out from my ex because before it went any further, and honestly I think you'd be better off doing the same
2007-10-01 17:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by MiTcH NiCh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him another chance, he said he didn't want to break up with you! didn't he? Have mercy on him. Have faith in your instincts and intuition. You have the answer in your heart.
2007-10-01 17:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by R R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like this guys a true wimp i mean hes cryin cos he kissed another girl and then told u??????? what da hell?
nahhh u need to listen to his advice and leave him u dont want any wimpy guy who prolly wears ur panties when u not around
2007-10-01 16:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater, sounds like he just doesnt have the balls to tell you that its over. So he does what he thinks will make you leave him (cheating), so its not his fault or decision.. its all on you.
2007-10-01 16:59:01 · answer #6 · answered by krogerpharmtech 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's not mature enough to conrol himself, you don't want him. His line about being tired of hurting girls is a con. Sorry.
2007-10-01 16:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by bobo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was being honest about breaking up with him.
2007-10-01 17:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by Fred F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys will let you catch them so you will break up with them it's easier that way for him
2007-10-01 17:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by glenn_montgomery88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And now I'm confused!
2007-10-01 16:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by missyqaballiot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋