its okward to tell him hes doing it wrong but im not really enjoying it we will sleep together but i dont acually hit my limit i had to tell him wat eating a girl out was wat do i do
2007-10-01 09:33:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to guide him, and tell him what it is that you want and how to do it.
2007-10-01 09:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahah that's funny! well not really. i was in the same situation with my bf (i hope he never reads this) well he didnt know how either. but i used to tell him though. at times it would get me really pissed of that i was really into it and he didn't do it for me in bed. now i'm used it his ways. totally different than others i might say but hey he's learned a lot since we got together. now i enjoy it more although i'm sure it can be better. you should just guide him and tell him how you like it. have an open mind and dont be scared or shy to tell him. what's the point of having sex if you cant enjoy it or let him know what's wrong. i always ask my bf if i'm doing anything wrong. i want to know, i'm sure he doesnt want to hear, hey you suck but you should tell him anyway, not in those words but let him know. good luck with that!
2007-10-01 16:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like the problem is not his, but yours. If you know what you want, tell him. Somebody had to teach you, either by show or tell. Don't be selfish. If you're not happy, don't mock, leave him alone. He may not be into what you're into. That doesn't make anything be WRONG with either of you. That just means you're different from each other. In the end, that's ok, too.
2007-10-01 16:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by Neva N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are a little sensative when it comes to this subject so bring it up carefully. the best way i have found is to make it as comfortable as possible for him and just talk about it openly and honestly you may crush him a little but tell him how much u love him and that you want to be able to be open with him when it comes to this subject ask him if there are things that you are not doing the way he likes you will be amazed that some men will open up and then you can tell him all about how you feel. a good relationship should have good communication without it your just friends with benefits
2007-10-01 16:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by schally31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there, my wife and i were just messing about on yahoo answers and i seen your question, so she is gonna let me answer this one, you need to set the mood in bed, cheesy candles, nice smells, whatever to make the mood sexual, you need to show him your body,let him feel your body, dont be shy to tell him what you want, and find out what he wants,relax and have fun. you have told me that he doesnt know how to have se, so he is inexperienced or just always been bad, or maybe he isnt getting the right signs from you, i mean are you experienced, have you had good feedback from previous relationships, if so the take lead girl, show him what you got and blow his mind, but he nneds to know,, or be taught how to blow yours.
i dont know how comfortable you are with each other, but have you thought about watching a tasteful porn flick, re inact it or even just let him know what turns you on,
so your question states that he does not know how to have sex...girl you have a clean slate to turn this guy into a ssssssseeexxxx machine honed and skilled to YOU by YOU.
HAVE FUN,
2007-10-01 16:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by january 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a wonderful thing about humans. They are highly intelligent and usually quick learners. If you are willing to put the time in to teach and mold your lover they will improve. But if all you do is expect things to be perfect then you are fooling yourself and you will be disappointed.
Good lovers are made not born.
2007-10-01 16:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing you can do unless you tell him. Either you tell him and teach how to be better or in bed or you go unfulfilled, what would you rather have.
2007-10-01 16:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by boredatwork 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teach him nows the time to train him the way you want thats what alot of women dream of
2007-10-01 16:38:25 · answer #8 · answered by glenn_montgomery88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok chicky chicky if you are not confident enough to ealk to this guy then you can be sure he is not the one for you...ask him to slow down and tell him something that you like
2007-10-01 16:38:06 · answer #9 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him he's doing it wrong....just direct him to what you want him to do and he'll know that's good b/c of your reaction....
just keep giving him diections until he realizes what you like!
2007-10-01 16:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋