My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. He does have a problem with trust but we have been working on it. He lives about an hour away from me and we have been talking about moving in together. I have been married and divorced and he has never married, and we both have lived with other people before. I have no intention of this leading to us getting married. It's just so bills would be cheaper..etc... What do you guys think?
2007-10-01 09:31:56 · 14 answers · asked by hells_innocent_angel_03 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have talked about it and neither one of us wants to get married. He pretty much comes to my house after work on Thurs and stays until Sun night and is back Mon. night. He pays half of all my bills now. Neither one of us has children or wants children any time soon.
2007-10-01 09:39:26 · update #1
If it works for both of you why not? You need to be up front with him and make sure not to lead him on. He might think that moving into together is the next big step. Be honest with him.
2007-10-01 09:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by shermansgirl76 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't want to marry him ever, why would you waste your time?
Don't you want to find someone who you love and want to be with forever? Don't you think if you ran into that person and you were not only dating but living with someone you had no intention of marrying, that he would be turned off?
Don't waste your time! Don't waste his!
Don't move in together... it'll be messier on the way out.
If you're sure you don't want more with him, leave him now and date other people.
2007-10-01 09:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it out of convenience... that is a mistake. You have only been with this man 6 months, that is not long enough for you to know whether you could live with him, especially if he is already showing a red flag!!! the trust thing after 6 months = RED FLAG. Keep your personal space until you know where this relationship is going.
2007-10-01 09:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
living together and dating each other sounds like a married couple. it probably wont work out unless u plan on getting married in the future both of you.
2007-10-01 09:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by just!being!real 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly don't believe that you should move in with someone that you don't intend on marrying...actually i don't think you should live with someone unless you are married...but call me old fashion
i know things would be cheaper and maybe easier for you, but six months is really fast. i had a boyfriend for two and a half years and we did just fine living seperately
2007-10-01 09:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Shanoby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think thats a bad idea. Especially if he isnt on the same level as you. Things could get really sticky down the road when you guys move out.
2007-10-01 09:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by chevalrose 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tried that with someone that had trust issues. Didnt work so well. Turned out the issues the other person had were brought on by the fact that they werent being very "trustful"
Proceed with caution.
2007-10-01 09:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by Rick R , Super Duper Samurai 侍 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you really have to go there? Get another girl to share an apartment close to him, to cut costs. Why do people demean themself by "playing house"? Don't cheapen yourself, especially since you don't think he is a keeper.
2007-10-01 09:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds great then you'll know if you like each other before you get married.
2007-10-01 09:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it. 6 months is not enough time to move in and you'll both regret it.
2007-10-01 09:34:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋