when my son was bron his father was not there but when he was 6 months old we talk about working it out so i move back with him and 2 months after that he was see someone else but he told me he was sorry in he would love to out thing out so i did.and last night he came home and said he was moving out the in of the month in he would'nt to take or son in said no then he said i would not get anything from him because he pays 725.00 on 2 other kids he has so i would not get any thing is that true i don't really care but i wanted to ask in could he take or son from me thank u
2007-10-01 07:17:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Its not true! get your child support, and use a lawer if you have to.
Here is a Step by step link.
http://www.thebeehive.org/Templates/Family/Level3Image.aspx?PageId=1.528.1477.1495
It's not just about money. It's not about punishing the other parent. It's about what is best for the child.
He is the father, he has a responsability!
2007-10-01 07:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jamin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how many other kids he has. He still needs to pay for your son. Take him to court and get an order for child support and visitation. Have it so the child support is garnished directly out of his paychecks. If you tell the judge that he has already told you that he would not pay they will do this. He will just have to go out and work a 2nd job if he doesn't make enough. He needs to also get a vasectomy so he quits breeding.
2007-10-01 07:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is going to be broke. Yes you can get child support from him. Go to you local DHS, they should be able to help you. Where I am from, the state will pick it up once you fill out the papers and garnish his wages.. You should care about the child support too. It does not make you less of a mom. That support belongs to your child, it is owed. Child support is in no way a gift or something you should feel lucky about receiving, it is rightfully the child's. As for him wanting to take your son... he might be just talking crap, trying to scare and intimidate you. He doesn't have custody of the other two...sooo. But just in case, talk to DHS when you file for support and ask their advice.
2007-10-01 07:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by adrein_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweetie you can make him pay child support no matter what he says you go down to the nearest office asap ... he's a lier and there is no reason why he would be allowed to take your son so dont listen to him ... (the only way possible would be that you were an unfit mother but i assume your not) hes just saying those things to scare u ... and once you hit him with childsupport he will have to pay or the'll start taking his assest's !!!!! it also does not matter how many other kids he has !!! he sounds like a deadbeat stay away and dont believe his lies ... Good luck !!! it will be a lil sticky at first but when its over it will all be worth it
2007-10-01 07:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by LT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He said that hoping that you would not file. As long as he keeps making kids he will have to support them. If he only ends up with $2 left after paying all his child support that is to bad. Go file for child support right away. Your child should not have to suffer.
2007-10-01 07:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by geminimom79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to report for custody in case you're already looking after the youngster. Then on the comparable time get new child help from her. If she would not have a job she would be in a position of ought to get one or threat penal complex, in basic terms like men do. save a log of how plenty time she has the youngster. Who seems after youngster once you're at artwork? Get an estimate of how plenty that would value in daycare costs. Then pay attention for the fake allegations of abuse or molestation. it particularly is oftentimes the subsequent step in a womans aresenal in a quest for custody and funds.
2016-10-05 22:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every parent has to financially support their children. Just because he pay support for 2 others does not mean you can not get a court order for one. He can seek full custody through the court, but he would have to have just cause to ask for your son's removal from your care.
2007-10-01 07:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not true. He has to pay support until the child is 18 years old. Go to the Department of Welfare and they have a child support unit. to assist you in filing the paperwork for him to pay. If he refuses to pay then they will automaticly deduct it from his pay. He made the child, not to mention the others. now he must pay for them.
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mike
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2007-10-01 07:24:31 · answer #8 · answered by readyfor_you2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,
Tell the loser to find a good sturdy cardboard box. He is going to need it to live in. Because your child is also entitled to support. Get yourself a good attorney who specializes in this area of the law.
Good luck, your better off without him.
2007-10-01 07:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by bakerone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take that BUM to court! You DESERVE to receive financial support --- it doesn't matter if he has 10 other kids, or not! He needs to be responsible! Call Social Services or find a lawyer, pro-bono [free]...
YOU deserve to get financial help! : )
Good luck!
2007-10-01 07:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋