One way or the other i know she told on me .4 the past 2 days i have been trying 2 explain myself and all my actions have led 2 nothing.AND 4 THE RECORD WE DID NOT DO ANYTHING
2007-10-01 03:07:44 · 23 answers · asked by Lil T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you did nothing wrong, state that one time to your current girlfriend. It's up to her to accept it or not.
Don't keep trying to explain yourself. I truly believe that if one trys too hard to explain they are trying to cover up. Explaining once is enough. Let her decide what she wants to do - believe your words or not.
Got about your life as you would. With or without current girlfriend. That is up to her.
2007-10-01 03:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You still had no business being anywhere with your ex - at a club?? I suppose that was an accident? Why were YOU at a club without your girlfriend anyway? WHY did you need to talk with your ex??
If I were your girlfriend, I would have a real hard time believing anything you said ever again. It will take nothing less than a miracle to convince her you can ever be trusted again. Your judgment abilities are not good at all dude.
2007-10-01 03:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes family members need to mind their own business or at least find out the real story before stirring up trouble. If you try to explain too much you are looking guilty. Tell her "hey, we ran into each other and we can be friendly, that's it, bottom line" then drop it. If it really wasn't a big deal then you won't make a big deal out of it. If she is going to listen to her sister without talking to you first I would seriously reconsider even being with this girl. Sounds as though she listens to what other people say without being able to handle things on her own. Drama, drama, drama....thank God I am older now. Drama subsides as you age!! haha.
2007-10-01 03:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by Paula D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should trust you. I don't understand, does your girlfriend know already? If you've told her there was nothing in it and it was a chance meeting then she should accept that. If your girlfriend doesn't know then you should be the first person to say in a general conversation kind of way "Oh I saw -ex's name- in the -club's name- the other night... we had a little chat but I managed to get rid of her in the end! Oh and I saw -sister's name- there too but she gave me a strange look, do you know what's wrong with her?".... yeh that kind of thang... anywayz hope it helps
2007-10-01 03:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the bull by the horns and get her and her sister together and ask her sister what did she see. It not a crime to talk to an ex and if your girlfriend can't handle the truth then thats her problem.
It takes trust for a relationship to work. Trust on both sides
Good luck.
2007-10-01 03:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by den 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, learn to spell correctly or use spell check.
Next, all you can do with your girlfriend is tell the truth and hope she accepts it. It's likely the situation was made to sound worse than it was, when relayed to her.
If your girlfriend cares about the relationship, she'll at least listen to what you have to say, then decide how to handle it (but remember, the story she got from her sister is probably conflicting).
2007-10-01 03:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I expect the first question your girlfriend asked was
"what were you doing going to the club on your own with out me" No wonder she wants you to explain, Tell her the truth and if she loves you she will believe you and forgive you. Best of luck.
2007-10-01 03:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by doris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At a club???? mistake meeting with your ex??? Yea just save it! Why would you go there knowing what could happen? Surely you knew she hung out there?!? I dunno, just say SORRY SORRY SORRY and don't go clubbing for awhile...are you lookin' for trouble??
GO BUY HER SOMETHING NOW!!! Just kidding, tell her how you feel!! There must be some trust issues anyway if she's upset about it...it's gonna take a while for her to believe you & you need to find out whether you two can trust each other, if not you'll have bigger problems later on!!
2007-10-01 03:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by buckshotbullies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come clean with your girlfriend before her sister does because there's nothing worse than secondhand news about your boyfriend being seen with another woman (yet alone his ex) by her sister/friend/aunt/mother/etc. If your girlfriend trusts you, she'll believe that nothing has happened, unless you've given her a reason to believe you'd stray.
2007-10-01 03:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by Kimbre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mistake as in you planned to meet her and changed your mind, or as in a coincidence?
If you did not plan a meeting, and did nothing wrong, give gf some time to cool off. We are pretty sensitive creatures, ya' know.
I used to get jealous of my hubby and then I had to realize that he had friends before he met me, and some of them were girls. We have been married for 22 years now.
2007-10-01 03:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by Asked and Answered 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋