Why do i desire to spend money?

Question

I'm a stay-at-home mom of 3. I feel blessed to be able to stay home with my kids; however, I often feel a need to work outside the home, because I enjoy spending money. I said enjoyed, but most of the time it's more of a stress relief for me, like eating chocolate or sweets. What can I do...I'm in search of other ways to release the stress of everyday demands from my children?

Answer 1

I think it's what you've trained yourself into. I think if you took the same time you had and dedicated it to whatever interests you have or charities you would find your enjoying and wanting to do that more. I'm a mom of 3 as well and I certainly understand the need for time alone not thinking about children or house. I suggest using the time to encourage and enjoy hobbies (knitting, photography, gardening etc) or getting outdoors. Explore your local area check out historical sites and works of art. Find those out of the way places and events to take your family to. Donate your time to local groups (meals on wheels, nursing home, local school, local library, etc). There are hundreds of things you can do you just have to figure out what who needs help and whether you'd be interested in helping out there. I'm certain you'll find something to do with your time other than shopping if that's what you want. Good luck.

Answer 2

you can try doing some other ordinary job which enable you to come home early to look after your kids or try welfare programme aid you financially to provide for your kids once you have no form of financial assistance.

Answer 3

It's called retail therapy. I partook in some of that this weekend.

Answer 4

you are not alone in this regaard

Answer 5

We all do that...don't be so hard on yourself.