Poor christian guy, he has to follow the bible and is now being made fun of by everyone. I thought that christians get married young for sex reasons..... 28 is a bit past it.
2007-10-01 01:38:58 · 18 answers · asked by SmEllY! 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
He is very good looking and has a girlfriend. I just find it weird that they haven't gotten married yet since they are saving themselves. I didn't know guys (or girls) could have so much control. I lost my virginity when I was almost 18 and compared to my friends that was late! I have only slept with 2 people though and I loved them both (one I am married to now) but I wouldn't have waited til marriage although thats probably because I am not christian.
2007-10-01 12:47:23 · update #1
Because he doesn't fit the "world's" standard of doing things based off of what makes you feel good instead of what's right. Whoever this man is, I'm sure he understands that Jesus was persecuted and He warned us that we would be too.....He can't be surprised.
2007-10-01 01:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
That's one of the reasons I do not use the term "virgin" to refer to males. And 28 would not have been considered all that late for a man to marry in most eras. He's having the good sense to wait until he can afford to care for a wife well. But he's not a "virgin" in the sense that a woman would be, with having an intact hymen. There's nothing physical that separates those with sexual experience and those without.
2007-10-01 01:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think anyone who is reasonably attractive and has access to mates, yet doesn't have sex once, is seriously repressing some basic humans desires and curiosities. If I knew such a person, I wouldn't ridicule them, but I would be concerned and inquisitive about the matter. Some religious people do marry very young just so they can have sex, which I know from personal observations can be a rash and ultimately stupid decision. Hopefully this virgin of yours is being more selective about his mate.
2007-10-01 01:47:32 · answer #3 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is nothing wrong with being a 28 year old virgin!! you just have to ignore all those imature people!! you just have to find the right person!! i actually respect that you havent had sex yet!! most girls now a days start at the age of 11 or 12 so your doing pretty good!! and don't listebn to the people when the ridcule you cause its nothing!! so keep doing what your doing and good things will come to you!!
2007-10-01 01:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by Charlotte 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah they're giggling at you. have faith me, no person valuable factors appreciate for an unsightly guy because of the fact he slept around. Virginity isn't glaring. purely because of the fact somebody slept with a gaggle of people does no longer mean they're "greater appropriate." They nonetheless are who they're. 28 is slightly old to be a virgin. basically because of the fact it skill you weren't in any respect in a intense relationship. with a view to locate somebody, you need to start finding. ladies your age have become old, and you will no longer be able to have a significant relationship with somebody plenty youthful. So, your thoughts are happening. perhaps you positioned up an emotional shelter? I advise you attempt to place your self obtainable.
2016-11-06 22:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an outstanding guy. People rush into things far too much these days and to have that level of self control is refreshing.
I have real respect for people with a strong sense of religion, morals, and duty.
Tell your friend he has a fan and to keep being the person he is. He's in good company.
2007-10-01 02:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by -=Seta San=- 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The decision to wait to have sex until after you're married is a personal one that some choose to make. There's nothing wrong with that. No need or reason to ridicule someone who makes that decision.
Although I still think we all need a bit of practice before marriage...that's just my opinion tho.
2007-10-01 01:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by Adam G 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hooray for him! He's got standards to carry him through!
Of course the world will mock. That's okay.
He may just find himself a jewel of a girl who was also willing to wait, and he won't be sorry.
I waited, and I wasn't sorry. Sure, I was 24 not twenty eight, but believe me, the guy I got is one worth having. He waited too. I'd have waited TEN more years for him! Or for life.
Don't pity him. It's the rest that are to be pitied. Only they don't know it.
2007-10-01 01:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friends say bravo to him. he's being ridiculed because society frowns down on people who have standards and morals....also, not all christians get married young for sex reasons. if they are a true christian, they wouldn't marry for that purpose.
2007-10-01 01:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the reasons, surely?
If he's just repulsive, that's sad.
If he's been hideously unlucky, that's sad too, but with an amusing edge.
If he's purposefully denying himself a source of pleasure out of devotion to a non-existent deity - that's so stupid it's hilarious.
CD
2007-10-01 01:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by Super Atheist 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He is a good christian man. It doesn't matter what people who are not Christians think.
2007-10-01 01:45:15 · answer #11 · answered by pkvan 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋