is marriage necessary in life? without marriage cant we have a child thru sex? we can have a sex wit ha guy and have child
2007-10-01 00:24:33 · 18 answers · asked by rafeedha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Think about this from the child's point of view, is it better to come from a two parent intact family home or from some other situation?
2007-10-01 00:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by cimra 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a muslim and was born in the US. But my parents are from Pakistan and I've lived there for 3 summers. Half of my family lives there and I talk to them a lot. In Pakistan, women are not forced to wear hijab and stay at home. Most women are educated, and the ones that are not are from rural areas, not from the city. Women also have government positions in Pakistan and Benezeer Bhutto (I think I mispelled her name) was the prime minister. Its not as bad as everyone makes it out to be. Men do not mind their wives working if it is a descent job but I'll be truthful and say that most would not want their wives to be working in a small employment (such as some fastfood restaurant or as cashier). They consider it their responsibility to fulfill the wife's needs and the wife is never forced to work. Many homes have maids and the wives are not forced to clean the house. The only thing the wife does is cook and sometimes she doesn't even do that. So women have it easy there (for the most part). I do understand that there are exceptions and I've seen them as well. But those exist in the US and everywhere else in the world. Abusive husbands are not made that way by their religion, its just their anger and own personality. There is room to improve but not as bad as the media shows it. Now why would the media be showing happy wives and happy husbands? of course they want a story so they'll show bad examples. But that could easily be done for western households too. Besides, women were not so liberated in the west always either. Its fairly recent since they've been getting full rights but even now there are some placed that pay women less than men for the same work. Also, its cultural ideals and not islamic ideals. The wife of the Prophet (pbuh) led an army of men in war! That was such a long time ago so how could people accuse islam of treating women unequally. Also more than 200 hadith were memorized and recorded by Aisha. She's an example against the misconceptions toward islam today. wow, didn't notice my answer was so huge sorry! :P
2016-04-06 22:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No marriage is definitely not necessary in life, there is no rule saying you ever have to get married if you don't want to. It's just many people marry because they choose that life. You don't have to be married to have sex and have a child. Just do whatever you think is best for you and what makes you happy. If you want a child but are not married, then do it if you think it is a good idea. But with any major things like that, make sure you think seriously before you make any decisions.
2007-10-01 01:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by BTB2211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To just have a child, marriage is not necessary. However for the legal aspects of the child, later on, it is a good thing. It eliminates the question of the right of inheritance, for the child, and helps in probate matters. Marriage protects the child's future.
2007-10-01 00:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by Beau R 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
og course you can have a child without being married. marriage is a bond made between two people who are committed to each other and who are willing to work through as a team what life throws at them. having children, whether married or not, is a huge responsibility and the level of committment is even higher, since for the first several years of life this child is totally dependent on you for everything. if you aren't sure you are ready for the committment of marriage you very well may not be ready for the committment of raising a child yet, either.
2007-10-01 00:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by northcountry57 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Of course you can have children without being married. Only need sex Marriage is nothing but a commitment ceremony and some people simply do not care about it
2007-10-01 05:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by MissE 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage i beleive becomes necessary later in life. But while you are young its not. If you have a child while married its a lot easier to raise the child. and Provide for the child, and give the child the best life possible. It's just hard to raise a baby on your own. babys demand alot of time and money.
2007-10-01 00:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by Heather M 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Having a child means you are less important, that child's well-being is more important than your happiness. The child deserves to be considered first in all things having to do with your life. They deserve to be brought into a stable solvent family. That means enough money, support and parents to raise the child right.
Take that as you will.
2007-10-01 02:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by danashelchan 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Marriage isn't necssary and you can have a child without being married...
However, getting married is making a life long comitment to the one you love, and if and when you find the one true love, you may just find that you do actually want o get married...
2007-10-01 01:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely a personal choice. I would never personally have a child or even live with a man if I weren't married to him. Yes, you can have sex with anyone at any time in your life to produce a child but it's not the way that God intended for us to behave.
2007-10-01 04:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by Jasmine808 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋