when i tell him that i love him. but than he thinks that i dont. because, he hears stuff from other people. and you try and tell him that you really do love him. but than he tries to understand you. but sometimes it dont go to him. because he dont want to listen to me. i want to tell him that i trually love him. and i want to be with him. he just needs to understand that i really do want to be with him. and last night i told him my feelsings.so yea?..
2007-10-01 00:22:45 · 5 answers · asked by babyboyken_annagurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually man creatures are not that really good listeners.. there are some factors why sometimes its really hard to get their attention.. you have to be patient girl!
Maybe there are some reasons why your boyfriend seem to be not understands you or don't believe you when you say I Love you to him because he only wants to be assure that you truly love him by not just simply saying it, rather doing it and letting him feel that you love him... sometimes action is louder than voice.
The best thing you can do first is to have some heart to heart conversations with him regarding those stuff he heard from other people... you also have to ask him what was it and explain how it happened..
In love openness must not be put aside..
The first rule to make the relationship grows fonder is through COMMUNICATIONS... the second is LISTENING...
2007-10-01 00:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by janet a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like friends are interferring too much in both of your lives. If he does not want to listen you should tell him point blank you have to have someone to talk too. If he is not available you need to have someone to vent to. If he has a problem with that then he himself has issues he needs to deal with. He wants you just not your life problems. This is stupid on his part. A relationship is based on love, trust and COMMUNICATION. sounds like your boyfriend skipped that whole class in life learning. If you tell a guy you love him that is a big deal. If he brushes it off he may be scared of the commitment issue and make out like its nothing and trys to smoothe it over by huggy kissy then back to the same old same old.
2007-10-01 00:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by a t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't understand you then maybe he's not right for you. Maybe you need to give him time and space and then he might begin to understand you. Also, what could he be hearing from other people that would make him doubt what you tell him directly? There must be some reason why he thinks he cannot trust you. Try to find out what that is and maybe that will solve your problem. Good luck.
2007-10-01 00:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by Russell M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a new one! You sound young.
Prince charming will be yours soon enough.
This sounds like to high maintenance already.
Imagine how he will be when he looks like his Dad!!!
2007-10-01 00:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by Zeb G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dunno man .. hes proli really unsecure cuz of wut he hears ... he wants to blieve you .. but if he cant .... try sumore .. and if it dusnt get thru him ... ure beter off wid sum1 whu trusts you .. if u really wanna b him give it more time .. but dunt fight for a lost cause
2007-10-01 00:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋