2007-09-30 21:37:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure why not everyone else pretty much does. And leave them cats alone.
2007-09-30 21:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's the case you won't be any better than a car thats depreciating.
If you base your self-worth on looks you must be, no offense, pretty worthless (NOTE I'm not calling you ugly mate just saying its a bad idea) you could be the GQ man of the year, walk outside, and get hit by a car. Your face now messed up you think your worthless and bam you're in the gutter. Besides pretty people usually have more up their sleeve than a glittery smile or a toned bod. Many pay attention to issues important to them. Charities, and political issues for instance on our Worlds famous attractive guy/gals. Also think of George Clooney, sure women say he's attractive but I'd bet you a dollar on a dime he'd be a nobody if it wasn't for that funny personality the guy has.
Look at what you've got you can keep no matter what. Your car, house, money, job, and looks can be taken from you in seconds. Your personality though is something that can't be stolen, taken, destroyed, or lost in seconds. Base your self-worth on who you are and the people you attract (friends) its those things that define you as a person in your eyes and in others.
Think about it mate if you've got a group of blokes that love to make funny jokes, enjoy a good night out, and help eachother out in your time of need that's way more valuable than the ****** sitting with a "easy girl" on his arm waiting to go home with him. You'll get better women, better relationships, better friends, and a better life if you live for laughter, fun, love, excitement, and adventure than if you live for money, beauty, prestige, and physical objects like a car.
2007-10-01 04:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by Advice4U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope cuz good looks are here one day and gone the next. And it doesn't even have to be because of age like sometimes things just hapen like this one girl she got some rare skin disease and she was really pretty before it got bad. Or like you cold get an in accident or anything and your looks could be taken away.Then what, you aren't worh anything anymore? So like I said before that might not be a good idea. If your nice looking be proud of that but don't let that become the only thing you focus on cuz you never know is all im saying. You just don't.
2007-10-01 12:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by I am mizz chilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you enjoy the concept of a ego-shattering mid-life crisis. You need to value yourself on something that is more... permanent. As a guy, this will not be as pronounced as it is with women, but it will still happen.
Just think of yourself as an 100 year old man. Think about what you want to do now, so when you're 100 you can say, "I was a good person, I still am a good person, and I enjoyed a great life!"
2007-10-01 04:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude - in 40 years time all those good looks (if there really are any) will be replaced by bags n wrinkles n all - might as well be worthy of who u r inside - otherwise u wont be worth much wen ur 60
2007-10-01 04:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by Meera88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way what you look like now will not last you need to look inside yourself and base your self worth on that.
2007-10-01 04:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by maraloves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rather on how others are judging your self-worth, it will spare you a lot of disappointments.
2007-10-01 04:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by Mirka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Thats were cockiness and snobs are.
Eventually your looks will fade and you will have to rely on being your true self.
2007-10-01 04:41:16 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. However, know...you don't appear to others (notice, not the mirror) as beautiful for no reason.
2007-10-01 04:40:54 · answer #9 · answered by kerriwyn13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO don't bother you will meet enough shallow and superficial people who will do that for you.
2007-10-01 04:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by arkie182 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋