2007-09-30 16:23:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Yep. Perhaps you can get something that comes as a pair and give one at the shower and the other at the wedding.
2007-09-30 16:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if they are close to you. i would give an elaborate gift for the shower and in the card you can say this is for your life together with her husband of coarse.
then you wont have to bring anything to the wedding because it will be clear that it's for the marriage.
i would give the gift at the shower coz you will be in a small room and each person will hand her the gift. you will look foolish going with nothing.
at the day of the wedding all gifts are place on a table. no one will notice that you didnt give a gift.
the bride and groom dont get the gifts till after the wedding or even not til the honeymoon is over.
so just give a gift at the shower. A NICE ONE please
2007-10-04 18:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I think that the people that give gifts at the wedding are ones that didn't get to make it to the bridal shower. I think that 1 gift is plenty. Besides that is what the ridal shower is for. Go with you best judgement.
2007-10-01 09:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by yrunosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually buy something for the shower and give money in a card for the wedding.
2007-10-01 00:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you must, then you've taken the fun out of gift-giving. No one is obligated to give a gift, be it a wedding, shower, or birthday.
2007-09-30 23:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by Lighthouse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually two, your budget money divided between them. A gift for the shower, gift or money for the wedding.
2007-10-01 00:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by riversconfluence 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yep....but once upon a time wedding and/or shower gifts didn't need to drive you broke. simple meaningful things were accepted for what they were.....from the heart.
just as nothing seems to stay sacred any more, spectacular squandering didn't remain with those who could afford it.
2007-09-30 23:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shuld bring gifts for both occassions, but they do not have to be extravagant or expensive. I'm hoping you know the bride-to-be and what here interests or needs would be.
2007-09-30 23:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋