It Is wrong ,hitting someone only shows that you are losing control of a situation and can not deal with it rationally. There are better ways than corporal punishment. After all you are adults dealing with mere children and should be able to out wit them.
2007-09-30 12:10:37
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answered by Anonymous
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Its all apoint of view ingredient... some those that think of any touch with toddler in conjuction with self-discipline is carefully incorrect.. others think of that its mandatory. countless the time it relies upon on the toddler. With some chlidren basically a stern seem can deliver them crying, others choose actual reinforcement. despite the fact that, in case you opt for to smack a toddler particularly rightly it shouldnt go away marks/bruises, shouldnt be used because of the fact the 1st port of call for self-discipline and clearly ought to basically be used on decrease back of palms/legs aka no longer around the decrease back of the top. the themes come from some mum and dad abusing this and inflicting there infants harm and harm. in case you employ it properly with some infants that could be a benificial help. while i grew to become into youthful my dad basically ever smacked me two times while i grew to become into being somewhat naughty etc and does no longer pay attention to any sort of reason, my husband grew to become into additionally smacked as yongster on social gathering. Its making specific that it isnt abused. despite the fact that, thinking alot of people think of that even grabbing your childs arm is unacceptable maximum folk stay away from smacking there toddler (or a stern faucet on the decrease back of the hand) in public for that very reason.
2016-11-06 21:23:17
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answered by Anonymous
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It depends. There are some times when a child is completely out of control and defiant, where spanking may be the only to get through to them that their behavior is unacceptable. What else can you do with a child who doesn't think they have to obey you?
It should not be used for everyday misbehavior that can be corrected by other means.
2007-09-30 12:14:17
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answered by KC 7
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I agree with spanking to a certain age and a certain degree. You should never beat your child or nothing. I don't think you should ever smack them while naked or smack them in the face. I do belive that you should spank them if they get out of line when they are younger. I think it is good punishment for some kids. While other kids on the other hand it might not be good for. All kids are different and sometimes you have to use different punishment for them. Where one kids might do good with a spanking one might do good with time out or a toy took or something. I just think you got to watch how hard you spank. I don't think you should spank to the point of leaving marks. My daughter is 16 months old and I spank her hand sometimes for some of the things she does. She reacts good to it and quits. My nephew is almost 3 and he does good in the "corner". Good Luck with you paper. You will get a lot of answers to this.
2007-09-30 12:12:19
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answered by Anonymous
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If an adult performs poorly at work, is it okay for the boss to hire a man twice the adult's size to smack them across the face or punch them in the eye? Is it okay for a husband to push his wife down the stairs or punch her in the stomach for doing something to make him angry? Is it okay to smack or punch my neighbor for parking in front of my property, when they KNOW I hate that? Is it okay to kick a dog for peeing in the house?
Then why on earth would anyone think it was okay to hit a child, under ANY circumstances?
When an adult attacks another adult, it's a legal offense called assault and battery. When an adult attacks an animal, it's a legal offense called animal abuse. When an adult hits a child, it's teaching them a lesson. Wait. No...that's not right...when an adult hits a child, it's a legal offense called CHILD ABUSE.
2007-09-30 15:33:20
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answered by Magaroni 5
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we have crossed the boundaries of saying that smacking is child abuse i have raised 2 kids of my own now aged 23 & 19 & from as early as they could crawl & touch things like the fire for example i would tell them no & move them away of course they keep having ago so instead of letting them get burnt a light tap on the hand is better i will probably get many thumbs down now but with the cane removed from schools & all this no smacking lark & childline numbers for the kid it makes my blood boil child abuse to me is starving a child putting cigarettes out on them read the book the boy called IT that is child abuse it made me cry my eyes out if your child pulls away from you as you are about to cross the road your instinct is to smack because of fear as long as your child knows why you smacked them ie because you love them & could'nt bare the thought of losing them etc what's the problem
2007-09-30 12:31:52
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answered by magic man 3
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very seriously circumstantial. if thats for ECD they want you to say its bad and never acceptable.
most of the time thats what they want you to say i personally think it honestly within reason and depending on what it is that is smacked is some time a necessity.
i know thta most people believe that it isnt ok and that its abuse but thats also people who take it to the extreme.
2007-09-30 12:12:04
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answered by Anonymous
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heck no
2 kids my nephew and my Gf nephew same age no contact with each other
my nephew is a S@#$% and distrespectful I am always setting him straight and he is always crying and just being a brat and a pain to deal with
My Gf nephew is awesome he is well mannered and does what he's told
My Gf's brother and wife layed the smack down early
My sister and Hubby have and arent going to (thats why she is pulling her hair out and started a snowball effect and my nephew is the devil)
2007-09-30 12:15:51
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answered by loujitsu1978 3
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it depends what you mean by "smack"
I don't see anything wrong with spanking my child on the behind as a last resort for bad behaviour. I think it works for some kids and doesn't for others. For my kids, I find it to be effective.
2007-09-30 12:10:21
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answered by who-wants-to-know 6
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My opinion. It has been done for years. It has worked for years. I don't mean beating-- I mean smacking. There is a difference. To me there is NOTHING wrong in smacking your child.
2007-09-30 12:17:13
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answered by old_woman_84 7
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