Anything ticks him off. It happens every day. I love him, but I am considering divorse if there is no medication or something to control this outbursts.
2007-09-30 11:06:35 · 8 answers · asked by tokkie0007 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
tell your husband to try anger management classes and find out what irritates him...there might be issues within himself that causes him to be irritated by anything...u should try to stick with him because u married him so try the classes and GOOD LUCK!!!! :)
2007-09-30 11:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Troy & Aliya's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Angry people are usually either mean, self-centered and out of control and usually a person you don't want to be with.
Anger is energy and the person who has it needs to express it appropriately and your husband is not doing that.
He does it to you because he can, you have taught him that, by showing him your love. Medication may help but he really needs counseling. Since he only displays his anger to people close to him that he knows loves him, he will continue to do this until you say that it is not OK.
Good Luck.
2007-09-30 18:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by April First 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he's scaring you and you don't want your kids to witness that. thats emotional abuse. he probably doesn't know how much he's hurting other people. anger is caused by chemicals in the brain and he needs to go through therapy or relax somehow to help himself. i truly believe over reactions are more a chemicals fault than a persons heart.i hope he gets better; ). and remember everyone goes through problems. every human being is genetically made differently.
2007-09-30 19:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by beauty&brains 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too late isn't it ? you are probably already in the last stages of love , regretably you and he are probably a memory ,, but if there is any hope you have to leave NOW , tonight no more [ prick me here I can take it ] not one more time or you will be over ,,Tell him it's over , tell him goodby , then if you find a glimmer of love still alive start over , but you cant start from here , you have to move on first , ,,,, leave him before it's over ,, or it will be OVER,, today is his last day to enjoy your company ,, get your mom to help you , I'm not afraid of him becoming violent , I worry for the marrage of love nothing more .....act now befor its too late,,,,
2007-09-30 19:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give him a choice - Anger Management or divorce. If he's in denial, tape record him sometime and play it back for him. He might see the light.
2007-09-30 18:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by MissKathleen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had an anger problem myself which i resolved completely with Emotional Freedom Techniques. i had irritable bowel as a consequence of anger. gone now. www.emofree.com
2007-09-30 18:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My step dad was like that. Maybe he is bipoler you really should try to get him to get help before something happens.
2007-09-30 19:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by MDMA NO WAY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget medication he is not going to change, cut your losses and get away from him before he commits battery.
2007-09-30 18:15:47 · answer #8 · answered by dreampo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋