for girls its really easy to fall in love with a guy, but for guys it seems not real or they take way longer. what makes a guy fall in love? what does a girl do to make that happen?
2007-09-30 09:44:45 · 13 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like this question! In order to want you, amongst other things he has to not already have you. Every guy has different taste in girls, and some guys are attracted to somethings other guys just downright don't like. A lot of girls fall for the bad boys by trying to answer this exact question. So, avoid that roller coaster ride if you can. The number one thing you can do is draw out the time it takes for you to submit. Every single guy likes a challenge, and at the very least likes to win. That's what testosterone does. So if a girl is easy, there is no competition and it is an easy win, not worthy of much remembrance. However if you flirt and make him doubt whether or not you think he is good enough for you, he will see that as a threat to his masculinity...and try harder to convince you he is "worthy" of your companionship. You've got to make him work for your heart, don't just lob it to him when he walks through the door. Also, much like girls, guys like to get complements too, which is easy because all you have to do is say things that make him feel more manly. In short... make him feel great when he's around you, and miserable when he is not. Equating you with happiness is pretty much the same as falling in love.
2007-09-30 10:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by sloppyjoe2 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I dont know about that. I fall in love pretty easily, Ive had many "love at first sight" situations.
There isnt one thing that makes a man fall in love with a woman. Its the way a woman carries herself, Its the way she talks, walks, smells, thinks, lives, and works.
Physical attraction is only a small part of it, guys can look around and say "Whoah shes hot" but it usually ends there. What it takes for a man to take a chance is a special glow, its intangible and hard to explain. Its love.
2007-09-30 09:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Nextgen89 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The girl should not have to do anything.
For me... it was because she showed me that she cared for me and loved me.
She was the one who told me that she loved me first.... I took about a month longer (However, I just came out of an emotionally abusive relationship -- so that may be why).
BUT... if you show that you care and love him... and he is showing that he cares and ACTS like he loves you (as guys are slower)... it will happen in due time.
Just have a conversation with him and let him know how you feel and that you want to know how he feels. Communication = Good. =)
2007-09-30 09:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one can really explain it. But, you don't choose who you fall in love with, and you can't make someone fall in love with you. When the right person comes along, you will know.
2007-09-30 09:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by b-E-C-C-a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In one word - Respect! A guy will fall for a woman who respects him and treat him with adoration.
2007-09-30 09:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lover of Blue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess boy's will fall in love in the same way as we girls
Everyone wants respect
a good personality
and shows adoration
2007-09-30 09:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by Chesh » 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats because "love" is caused by a hormone caleld oxytocin.. i think thats how its spelt, anyways, girls secret this in their brains in massive amounts at any given moment, it causes them to like just about anyone. this makes them more affectionate and easier for them to fall in love. men secret this in small amounts, accept when in orgasm. tihs makes it difficult to men to "fall in love" with women they havnt had sex with . keep in mind this is not true love, this is hormonal love, and it doenst mean you should go have sex with a guy to make him like you. however this is the scientific explanation of why guys have trouble "falling in love" and taking a relationship as seriously as women seem to. on the upshot, it also allows men to hold more stable relationships, because women bond with males easily, as a result of secreting so much ocytocin which makes them want someone different every few months. men bond less often more strongly, because they secret it "for" usually one girl at a time. doesnt make guys assholes or girls bitches, neither is inferior, just that both are deifferent.
2007-09-30 09:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by michael n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make someone fall in love with you. maybe if you are lucky, you can spend time with this person, and he will see a good quality in you and fall in love.
2007-09-30 09:47:10 · answer #8 · answered by rustik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys dont like girls who throw themselfs on them
sure they will take them for a "ride"
but they want someone they can relate to and have a good time
probally the modest self- concious girl
or the girl who looks sad alot but has the most amazing smile
if i didnt help you ask a guy
2007-09-30 09:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by lilfairyneeyore 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You make "Love" sound like a game "Your it" ...
People married for 25 years are still questioning their "Love" for one another...til death do they part..is no longer?
They call this divorce..we have the highest divorce rate than any other country..because so many people mistaken "Love" for some other emotion?
I think love is the closest thing to God. A deep caring is NOT love......this feeling can change in a month or two?
2007-09-30 09:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋