heres the short version.... started seeing a guy mid july...best 3 weeks of my life...then he starts acting all funny...he has a lot of **** goin on in his life so i let it slide...says he needs space one day and the next he is kissing me and askin me to come stay at his house...then he says i have too much **** going on for a relationship.. he is a cop and mp for army..leaving in january. when we first met he asked if him leaving was a problem and i said no..he said good bc he wouldnt want me to get involved if i wouldnt be able to deal with it....is "i have too much **** going on for a relationship" a cop-out for loss of interest or seein someone else? just not sure if i really beleive that excuse seeing not two months ago he said he was "in this for the long haul". im 27 he is 25 with a year old son...any opinions??
2007-09-30 09:12:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like he's just leading you on. I say leave him and find someone better. If he has a year old son and he's single that kinda proves he's not in for the long haul. Talk with him and let him know that you want a straight answer and no more bullshit. If he's not ready then leave it at that, if he is ready and he does this stuff down the road then leave his ***.
Good Luck
2007-09-30 09:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this your kid together or from a previous girlfriend. There is too much crap in my life is a cop out. He wants sex not a relationship. I wouldn't be surprised to hear he has cheated on you before. I'm not in the military and I don't know how active the mps are, but if he only works and isn't in school, or something of the likes, what is so time consuming about a relationship? The fact that you have dinner with someone?
If this isn't your kid, I would have not gotten involved in the first place, so definitely cut loses if your looking for long term.
2007-09-30 09:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would never say that to my partner, but thats just me. I dont think its a cop-out because It just doesnt seem like he could do that to you, but I dont know him. Life could be made hard for you if he leaves, especially if you feel that strongly for him. If he says that there is too much **** in his life maybe you shouldn't have a relationship with him, It would be his loss.
2007-09-30 09:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"He sure ain't lying to you about having too much (or another
relationship) going on for a relationship with you."
"If you buy everything he's selling, you are already 'IN TOO
DEEP', and just don't want to 'LET GO'."
"Some 'DRAMA' can get good enough, to the point you can't
'LET GO', especially if you think he's already in relationship
trouble with someone else."
2007-09-30 09:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by Arkansas Mohawk Indian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy just wants a quickie available. Move on, you are probably a better person than that. Don't be used by anyone.
2007-09-30 09:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by Sleepy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's too much **** for me to read. Sorry!
2007-09-30 09:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wants to ask for "One for the road..."
2007-09-30 09:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by thiny72 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on
2007-09-30 09:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋