i love this guy n he loved me too,but one day when i asked about getting married he told me that we can't get together because he is younger then me.he knew about this since beginning but he lied to me about his age in beggining.he said he was afraid that after knowing this i'll never start this relationship.but now after knowing this he is backing up saying his parents won't accept me.i m soo mad at him that i m feeling like killing him.how can he do this to me whom he said he love the most.now i m all alone.want to get back to him want to teach him a nice leson but dont know what to do?i still love him.
2007-09-30 09:10:22 · 12 answers · asked by donna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
never get his thoughts back in ur life ....
2007-09-30 23:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to accept that the love you feel is for the person who doesn't exist, the one who got into the relationship to have a life together, and he apparently just wanted to have sex with an older woman instead. Remember that many of life's learning experiences are painful and this is one of those experiences.
You can teach him a lesson by finding someone else who will return the love you have to offer.
2007-09-30 09:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dona use your mind for one minute and think Does he Love you? you will certainly get the answer "NO" .
But you love him and want to marry him, okay think about it you get marry with a person who doesn't love you. How long your marriage will be going on. When you have a partner who is Liar and doens't love you at all, how long you can be with him...? Do you have any answer, well you cant get along with him for long......then it will not be only yours problem but then it will be probelms of your parents too. They cant see you in such a miserable situation. The one sided relationship is always like a burden. And you will not like the relationship which is like burden to you. will you ?
So dear forget him, start a fresh life wihout him, and see a loyal friend.
Bye take care........
2007-09-30 19:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by The Answering Machine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do to get a revenge would only add to your agonies. It is unfortunate but true that you have been cheated. But in any case the guy is not even worth keeping as a friend.
Best course of action is to ignore that person. Forget & forgive! God will certainly punish him.
And be careful when you start a new relationship...
Take Care
2007-09-30 23:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go and get your girlfriends together and throw a party... getting rid of assholes in your life is a time to celebrate! Letting it effect you as little as possible is the best way to get back at him.
You might feel a little lonely and a little insecure, but really all you have lost is a lier who never deserved you in the first place.
Now put some make-up on, a nice frock and go and get legless, celebrating your freedom :D
Look out world! :)
2007-09-30 09:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep all the good memories of the time you had when you were together. It's very difficult and it sure must hurt you a lot, but forget the guy, and move on...
Take control of your life.
You surely seem to be a person who must deserve someone better than what you got.
2007-09-30 10:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no guy is worth this kind of pain. when someone lies and is caught at lying, his word cannot be trusted to be truthful...in anything. leave him alone. also, don't get involved with a new guy for at least 6 months/1 year. then find a new guy who doesn't lie. this will teach this guy a real nice lesson.
2007-09-30 09:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by wildcat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always keep in mind that the one from whom u expected very less that person only gonna give u pain......
Be strong...n move on
2007-09-30 09:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi... You can't be so weak!he lied to you about his age and also maybe about his love too. Just b'coz he wanted a gf he used u. Move on, u hav all your life. hope u'll find someone better. just try to forget what has happend as if it was all a bad dream...
Good Luck!
2007-09-30 10:45:03 · answer #9 · answered by Crown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is better 2 forget all the things even don't think of that event and start with a new era.
2007-09-30 22:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by new friend 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You sound 15 which you shouldn't be talking about marriage anyway.
2007-09-30 09:14:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋