He moved out last saturday, we argue much and we've only been together for year and a half. He was lying to me about stupid ****, but in a scary way...like...he would run off a story off the top of his head and he sounds very convincing, until I find out he lied to me later on. I do love him and I feel sick thinking about him not being around me. I just talked to him for the first time in a week and he said that I was always hounding him and never let him live his life, all he wanted was for me to live my life, and him live his life and then live "our" life. I want that to but I thought if your in a relationship, your apart of each others lives, especially when you live with someone. I do love him and I know he loves me, he wants to settle down with me. Im affraid iv got to much resetment built up over time to be able to trust him and let him back in. But I love him and miss him. What do I do?
2007-09-30 08:47:45 · 2 answers · asked by needhelp25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you get into a relationship there is no his life and her life any longer. Try to go out with others and tell him that it is either your lives together or separate. If he is lying to you he isn't ready for a serious relationship and the commitment that takes and you need to move on to someone who wants that as much as you do. letting him move back in before he is willing to make that commitment is simply becoming a sexual object for his convenience.
2007-09-30 08:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't honestly see youself being truley happy with him, then maybe it's best you let him go as hard as that is. sometime's it's better to be on your own than to be with someone that your always gonna be second guessing.. good luck :)
2007-09-30 08:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by cheeka2162 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋