I think i have fallen for this girl however we are far away, 300 km, and how do i know if she likes me back?

Question

Alright, i have been talking to this girl since the end of the summer, we used to go to high school together but didn't talk much. She is this wonderful girl from Slovakia, exceedingly smart, very beautiful smile, and a slight sexy European accent. Now to brag or anything i am not bad catch myself, lol Now its our first year of university and she is at the U of Ottawa, and i stayed at U of Toronto. We have chatting on msn for like 6 hours everyday till 3 in the morning. I have come to realize that she and i are very much alike, our tastes are similar etc. I was dating a couple of girls this past month but i just couldn't get her out of my head, and i think that she is the one i should be with, if anyone. So the problem is she is 300 km away, and i have never had such a long distance relationship or know how i could work. Plus i don't know if she likes me at the same level. She and i flirt on msn a lot. Plus she has a "coffee date" with some guy. Do i tell her how i feel?

btw, i don't know if she would find me attractive. I am 6'5 pretty muscular, play a lot of sports, i am not too out going, but i get with people. she isn't very outgoing either so i think its a match. i am not good at reading girls nor have i been on too many dates, like 5 in my life, so i don't know, would any girls answering find someone like myself attractive?

Answer 1

Well girls find me attrative... buddy, please don't generlize, I'm 6'1 got some build, nothing special in any sense and I still find girls that find me attractive, don't go looking for hand outs, geeze... that aside, you talk with this lady for 6 hours and YOU NEVER TALKED ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER!!!! RRRRRRR STUPID!!! Geeze you people just don't get it.... I digress, ether way Yea I don't know what to tell you. For one you think because neither one of you is outgoing that means your a match, yea NOOOOOOO!!!! Doesn't work that way, but lets cut thru all the bs. IF you can't tell her how you feel it doesn't matter, its like if a tree falls in the woods does it make a sound? Guess what the answer to that is... IT DOESN'T MATTER!!!!! So unless you can talk honestly to her about the way you feel, you sort of screw'd yourself, sorry thats the way it works. But also realize if she is the one, and you want to make this work, you need for this to work, then realize love by itself is never enough, you need a purpose you need something deeper. Like I don't know to love and understand each other and help each other thru this period of college WITHOUT letting you guys get all lonely. Just something like that or deeper, like family or marriage. Love itself is just never enough buddy.....

Answer 2

oooo....your aspects are well. inform her that you just like her. if she likes you, she's going to reply to you. i do not know the way, however she's going to. if she is shy, she might run away like me.