there was a girl my mate perry liked, he tried it with her for ages and she didnt like him, neither did i untill i got to know her more.... then one day he told her how he felt about her, but she dismissed it, then the next day i told her i liked her as she was seemingly flirty with me, she then told me she felt the same and we hooked up, she told our friend in a text a week later we were seeing eachother, was i out of order ???
2007-09-30 06:12:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who knows! You might have been saving him!!!
2007-09-30 06:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Girishkumar TS 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You botched this.
You had the right to move on her. He doesn't own her, and they weren't even exclusive from what you said. But you acted, knowing how he felt about her, behind Perry's back. He has good reason to be angry with you.
You owe him an apology, and you owe it to yourself to think ahead in the future. A good rule is never to do anything you are going to want to hide from your friends. If you must go ahead, fess up right away-- for best results, warn them before you do it.
Then, once you've apologized, and made amends if you think you should, stop beating yourself up about it. It won't be the dumbest, worst thing you ever do-- if it is, I really wish I were you.
2007-09-30 14:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by kaminegg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you used the phrase "stole my friends gf", shows that you know what you did was wrong. If you had true feelings for each other then they would have lasted long enough for you guys to wait a while, out of respect for your friend. And she told the guy in a text?? What a classy girl.
2007-09-30 13:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your being a good freind in your guilt. In all fairness your mate sounds a wuzz to the girl and for this she felt no attraction. It is the ladies choice who she likes and it was you. Your friend should do the honourable thing & say well done matey. In all fairness she shouldn't have rubbed his face in the poo when he was down and told him you were together.
2007-09-30 13:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by A . Z . 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-10-04 10:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it wasn't as if they were together for years and she cheated on him with you:- so no not really, if it was meant to be between them then they'd still be together. She shouldn't have said in text mind(kind of immature) but no not out of order. He'll eventually get over it.
2007-09-30 13:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by kl240 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you weren't out of line because she wasn't his girlfriend in the first place, but he's no doubt going to have some heartburn over this for awhile because you are his friend. It might be a good idea to go talk to him about this before he hears it from someone else...otherwise he's going to feel betrayed.
2007-09-30 13:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well the grown up thing to do would be for her to tell him instead of text it or for you to tell him personally. you didn't steal his girlfriend since they were never together so you haven't done anything wrong as such, but to be a truly good friend you should have told him and make sure you spend quality time with him too instead of all your time with her. also be sensitive to the fact that he is attracted to her, i don't think it would be a good idea for the three of you to do stuff together.
2007-09-30 13:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah J 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No worries, you didn't do anything wrong. Since the girl had let your friend know that she dislike her, and is you that she likes. And the two of them never started, right?
Take it easy and enjoy your time with her.
God bless!
2007-09-30 13:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not your fault she liked you more than him and that you get along better with her than him. Thats the way the cookie crumbles, dont worry your little head about it and get on with your relationship, just dont rub it in your friends face coz that would be just mean.
2007-09-30 13:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by molly8485 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really should have told him, i did that a few years back (bearing in mind it was with a guy my best mate liked) and it was worse because i lied, if you really like her then you nned to explain that to him, if shes worth sacrificing your friendship if he really likes her, maybe you should think who is worth it?
2007-09-30 14:26:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋