I can not stop thinking of my guy friend, just recently he informed me he's seeing someone but didnt go into much detail & he was very reluntant to even let me know at all. He knows I'm crazy about him so I dont know if he was just trying to spare my feelings about her or if its that maybe he feels something for me too but wanted to be completely honest with me about her...ever since he spoke those words "I'm seeing someone", that is ALL i've been thinking about it is playing over & over in my head & it's killing me inside. I want to badly to say how I feel, I wrote out my feelings but it sounds crazy & desperate even for me read it all, but what can I do this is how I feel ya know...
I dont want to make a fool of myself or to seem like I'm laying a guilt trip on him but at the same time I want to get this all out in the open & finally be able to show him just how much I adore him. What do you guys think, should I keep it to myself or should I open the flood gates
2007-09-30 05:54:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he has made it clear that he is not interested in you. You have already made it clear to him that you are crazy about him and it hasn't worked. He is trying to let you down easy, please keep it to yourself so that he does not have to reject you a second time, as this will only make you feel worse. Sorry! ♥
2007-09-30 05:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by Rhiannon 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, he knows that you like him yet, he wanted to be honest with you but really didn't want to hurt your feels. So, I say you grab a bunch of your female friends and go have some fun don't lay around and feel guilty and wallo in your misery he's a guy and sooner or later maybe he'll think of asking you out! Maybe he does like you but doesn't want to ruin your relationship. I have some friends and then when your ready then go and talk with him.. I agree don't write him a letter that will make you sound desperate but, clear your head up and then approach him with what you feel. Good luck hope this helps you and smiling is good for you!
2007-09-30 13:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by smalltalk4you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just trying to keep you interested in him. Why did he have to tell you he is seen someone else? I would cut all comunication with him, that will certainly help in getting over those feelings. That takes time, but it will happen. One day you will look back and see that time has gone by, you dont feel nothing for this person, and you find yourself liking someone else.
2007-09-30 13:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by freckles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can do 2 things:
1- dont tell him and feel sorry for urself all time , till u forget about him and he wont even notice ur sadness.
2- tell him and if he wants u , thats good, if not , then feel bad but at least he knows u feel bad and that way u will get over him quickly.
Good luck ( he isnt the last guy on earth and u will get the right person for u if waited for him , dont rush things)
2007-09-30 13:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by michael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, truly caring for someone means risking "making a fool of yourself" occasionally when you've determined this person is worth the risk, and the stakes demand it. (The trick to this simple equation is being "sure"). Sitting by idly and quietly will preserve your dignity, but it won't bring you any closer to your professed goal. If you do nothing, you already know how this is going to turn out, right?
2007-09-30 13:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what it sounds like you already decided what to do ..TELL HIM. If he responds is he doesn't feel the same then at least YOu got it off your chest and you can move on, but their is also that chance that he does feel the same. Take the chance.......you seem like a great girl take a little risk.
2007-10-04 13:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by hi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him. He deserves to know, and you deserve to get this out in the open so it quits eating you alive. Just because he is with someone doesn't mean it's a lost cause, it isn't as though he's married to her. Just tell him how you feel, trying to maintain enough self control so as not to lose yourself, and see what happens.
2007-09-30 12:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by Exosus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a friend, why bow out of his life? this other person may not last long just be friends with him. don't let him string you along, tho, that's never good. realize that if this relationship with his g/f doesen't work out and then he asks you out he was playing you to see if you'd get jealous. if you bow out of his life forever that seems jealous. if you take a swipe at her, that's jealous. Find out if they're both fine with you two hanging out sometimes and talking but she may be jealous of his time spent with you and not her.Don't interfere!
2007-09-30 13:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by don't be a hater 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that you should drown him in your feelings....
HOWEVER....
i do think that you should let him know how you feel..
if you just tell him EVERYTHING....
you're gonna send him on a guilt trip...
and chances are he's probably gonna try to avoid you....
let out a little bit at a time...
try to control your emotions...
try to control your tears...
try to control how you make him feel
good luckâ¥
2007-09-30 12:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by cmlatte01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you said he knows you are crazy about him so he must not be interested so its time to move on
2007-09-30 13:29:44 · answer #10 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋