There is this guy who at times, I think likes me, and then other times, I think the opposite. Around five times last year during the school year, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I told him I didn't want a boyfriend at the moment (this happened each time). He flirts with me A LOT when I see him and maybe I would take this as a sign, but he flirts with a couple of other girls too. I know that sometime between the times he asked me out, he asked out someone else. He even sent us the same text message at the same time saying, "I miss you". I don't know what to make of this behavior because I know he thinks I'm good-looking and I don't know what his real intentions are when he acts like this. Then this year, he asked me out again, asking me to give him a chance. This was a couple of weeks ago. My response was, "I'll think about it" because I had to decide whether I liked him or not. And then recently (week ago) he said to me: "All my boys know I like you a lot and I wish you were
2007-09-30 05:52:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the same. Please give me a chance." I know this to be true that he talks about me with his friends a lot because whenever I talk to them, they ask me about him, whether or not I like him, etc.
In response to his text, I told him I could never really be sure if he is being sincere with me. His response was: "I swear to god I will prove it to you and I really like you a lot, I'm going to show you that I care and I want to be with you badly." All of this (including the previous times he asked me out) happened over text messaging. Then I asked him why he never asked me out in person, and he said "I will, watch." It's been about a week and he hasn't yet, so do I take that as a sign that he isn't serious about liking me? So...I don't know. It's confusing because he says he is serious but I feel like I haven't seen that in his behavior.
2007-09-30 05:52:51 · update #1
Sounds like a Player....and maybe has a bet with his buddies about you......dont fall for the "i'll prove it line "" seems to me he has already proven how he is and what he is.....my best advice would be to move along and stay away from him and let him know its a absolute NO !!!
2007-09-30 05:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by hghostinme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He asked you out more than once you've said no. You are playing the games not him.
2007-09-30 12:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by jon d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
words neva matter..actions do...listen 2 him n forget..if he is serious..if he misses you he will come to you...
even if you have any feeings for him dnt show him unless its extremely neccessary..
tats one of d way 2 keep him..
2007-09-30 12:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by ithunderhyderabad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're not convinced ( and you're really the only one who has to be) follow your instincts...they're there to serve you, so let them. Good luck to you.
2007-09-30 12:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats long
idk what to tell you though. you could go out with him or move on
2007-09-30 12:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by neongreensugar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋