I've had a few dreams about my grandma, who died june 04. I graduated may 22, she died june 8th
This one was her back to life, but dying. First it was some woman's mother. But then I know it was my grandma
I had to hold her, cuz she couldn't walk really, and sorta talk to her.
It was sorta a surprise that she died. She lived like 5 years longer though I think, cuz my parents said she was in a hospital
and wouldn't make it through the night, or 5 months. She died in her sleep.
I don't think I dealt w it. I mean I cried at the funeral, it was good/sad. But not so much after.
I was kinda in denial for nearly 2 years. It was unrealistic to me, I couldn't accept it.
I was like that with 2 of my dogs. I had an uncle die when I was in 8th grade. That was a tragedy too.
I only saw my grandma once a year for an hour at thanksgiving. She was in a home.
But she was really great. I don't think I dealt w her death. I had college, and moving.
I had lived in the same house for 19 years.
2007-09-30 05:41:41 · 3 answers · asked by samantha wilson 2 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
Aww, I am sorry to hear about your lose. how about praying to her? I dream of my dead family members often too.
2007-09-30 05:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Rock_N_Roll_Chicky 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Grief has it's own timetable. Don't feel bad that you're still grieving! It's o.k. and if someone says you should be over her death by now just ignore it! You may wanna check out a grief support group to get around some folks that can help you walk through the process. It's tough to let go of the ones we love!
2007-09-30 14:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by Lover of Blue 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you lose someone you really love it stays with you so don't worry it's nothing, you just miss your "granny". Have comforted that's she is watching over you.
2007-10-04 12:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋