based on my physical appearance, I'm tall, blonde, very thin and a lot of people ask me if I'm a model. I get asked that quite a bit and people tell me I'm quite stunning. I am very modest and do not play upon it whatsoever. My question is it is very frustrating with men, I don't get men, I try to be flirtateous and smile etc. but very few will approach me...what seems to be the problem?? It's like they enjoy looking and the ones I get approached by are very successful men are these the only ones with kahunas?? Someone help me cuz I'm going crazy!!
2007-09-30 04:18:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys have been trained by experience, (not to mention culture in general), that most women are looking for the bbd, (bigger, better deal). To quote a movie, "If I were supposed to be with an average guy, God would have made me ugly!"
Surveys have shown women are interested in: (in order)
1) the ability to make money
2) assets
3) a sense of humor
Some of us are gonna just be ourselves, and not care, but if you're as hot as you say, a lot of guys will be intimidated. (Bummer for you)
I literally know guys that will go for less attractive women because they feel they have no shot with a babe. (Makes no sense to me, either).
Unfortunately for you, a lot of the guys who will ask you out are just interested in getting another notch in their belt, they are arrogant jerks that believe themselves to be god’s great gift to womankind.
If you're flirtatious, it would be wise for you not to be physical at all, (don't even shake hands, much less hug or send any sort of signal that can be sexually construed), otherwise you'll end up being used by guys who just want you for sex.
You'll be a lot happier, (and more successful with guys) if you're introduced, (this is my good friend Amy D who seems like she should be a model, or at least be married of have a boyfriend, but no......she’s single, straight, Loves the color pink, I think you two should meet...........)
Do you have sibling, or friends that can introduce you to quality guys? Meeting His friends and family is important, seeing him interact with people that know him will give you a good idea of who he is, and how friends and family see him.
Most likely, you'll want a guy who wants you for who you are, and your looks just become a bonus.
There still are a few of us out there..........
Luck
2007-09-30 04:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-02 20:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the regular guys are intimidated by your beauty. They probably feel you are out of their league. Probably feel they have to live up to your high expectations. When of course, you may not have high expectations. Don't you just hate a weak man? Grr, it's so frustrating. You just have to keep trying until you find him. You should also try to be more assertive. I would come straight out and try to start a conversation to let him know that you are interested. Most men just want you to make the first step (Beyond flirting, smiling, etc.). Hope this helps.
2007-09-30 04:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by shell11435 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many men are intimidated by women who are beautiful. I have spent a lot of time in my life the same way even with a sparkly personality and am very outgoing and can talk to anyone. Funny, the deadbeats never have any problems talking to me and wanting to go out.....I'd rather be alone than in a toxic relationship one day.
2007-09-30 04:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Successful men are the ones you want. They have gotten their success by taking chances and being bold. Be happy that you don't attract losers.
If there is a man you are interested in, don't be afraid to approach him. Just start a conversation about his job, where he lives, etc. and see what happens.
2007-09-30 04:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the successful ones have bigger egos. The others probably think you're out their league. If you're interested in someone, try asking him out.
2007-09-30 04:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by justme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they're intimidated by your beauty. Or maybe you're not outgoing or friendly enough. Start by approaching them...feel confident about yourself!
2007-09-30 04:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by Amber _rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are afraid that someone who is that cute will reject them. If you see someone you are interested in, you approach them. If they like what they see, personalty etc., they will respond in kind.
2007-09-30 04:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
many men fear rejection. they also think that since you are so good looking that you would never possibly go out with them or that you must have a bf
2007-09-30 04:25:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happens to me too, and ive always wondered about it!...
2007-09-30 04:32:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋