My friend keeps ALL pictures and often takes them when I'm not prepared, looking down and have a double chin or one eye blinking so I look drunk. She won't delete tham and I hate her for it. What can you do about such a thing? She even puts them on bebo...I am so self conscious and embarassed about it I feel upset about this.
2007-09-30 01:19:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
She doesn't sound very considerate. I think you should talk to her seriously, tell her how you feel. Make sure you're not just asking her to take them off her bebo and delete them, make sure you're TELLING her. Hopefully, she would stop, and if not, maybe you should consider not being her friend anymore if she's like that.
Or else you could get down with the dogs, and take some pictures of her looking bad and put them on your bebo! haha
2007-09-30 01:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by *DAMAGED --x 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL
Can we see?
Well, you could take the bull by the horns and glamorize yourself. Always look dazzling for the camera and always be aware when she is snapping the shots.
Maybe if you become a camera hog she will lose interest in taking so many photos.
You could treat is like blackmail and bribe her to destroy them. Depending on your friend though, that might encourage her.
The best plan, if your capable, is to just accept it. 30 years from now you will enjoy seeing those pictures.
2007-09-30 13:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I haven't ever figured out what to do about it. My sister (13 years my senior) has a photo that was taken when I was about 3 of me wearing barn boots (only boots) and kissing a sheep...
Maybe don't spend so much time around this friend, or learn to avoid the camera by turning your back to it. Maybe she doesn't realize how much it upsets you. If you talk to her about it seriously, and she isn't willing to change, she's not much of a friend.
2007-09-30 12:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by cindylouwho38 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My house burnt to the ground when I was 17 so no evidence of my awkward years exist. I am very good at avoiding cameras so there is real proof that I exist. Hmm, I wonder if that's a good thing.
2007-09-30 09:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop if she's a true friend. If she refuses, stop being her friend. A real friend would not be that inconsiderate, and she's probably jealous of you to be frank. If she will not take them down, you can always contact a website and ask them to.
2007-09-30 08:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by Melanie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it really, really bothers you, you don't have to be friends with her anymore. If you've told her it really bothers you, and she understands that and doesn't think you're joking, it'd be kind of her to take them down. And she ought not to take your picture when you seriously ask her not to.
But really, you'll have bad pics of yourself all your life. Don't worry about it. No one pays attention to bad pictures of other people; they all have their own bad ones!
What people do remember is, "that girl who went nuts over photos, the one who thought she was the Beauty Queen and tried to get everyone to take down pictures of her if she didn't like them."
2007-09-30 08:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by bonitakale 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do the same thing back to her and see how she feels like! Then she probably will set a deal with you and say I will delete your pictures if you do delete mine. Good luck. =)
2007-09-30 10:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by *smile* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a fear that if I ask felicity for a photo it will be an ugly one. If i ask for three she may get suspicious. I forget what she looks like but i have her spirit inside of me. She often sends e.s.p. messages.
2007-09-30 09:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a problem with people who do that.
When someone is taking pictures I ask them please not to photograph me and when they see I'm serious they usually don't.
After that there really isn't much you can do......I block it from my mind and forget it.
2007-09-30 09:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Snap her when she is on the john. Catch one of her whilst she sleeps (gently place her finger in her nose before doing so).
2007-09-30 08:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋