as a person who you don't like or who is not really you?
like an unfair portrayal.
how do you handle being viewed as THAT?
when you don't fell that is who you are?
ultimatly you want to be liked, loved and accepted by people so something like this will bother you
2007-09-29 23:51:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
There will always be some one who sees you differently than you see your self.If you try and change so people will see you differently or better than they do right now. Then you are being that person you are trying not to be. Be your self and understand that there will always be people who see you differently than you see your self. You can't change who you are or how people see you, so try letting them know you for who you are.
2007-09-30 00:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by ENERGISER 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what I am perceiving from your description, you are self evaluating rather than hearing this from others. You have allowed it to rob you of your self esteem. Something you don't like about yourself is being directed to others in a negative level. Primarily to allow you to not have to face your negativity, regarding some special event taking place some time in your past.
This is a reactive feature you are experiencing, stemming from some quite severe emotion you have embedded within the deeper recesses of the mind. Something which may have taken place several years ago.. Usually taking place in the formative years of your life.
As you are finding out, continuous thought patterns become very convincing and you continue to see the condition as becoming more serious, due to the repeated feeling creating its own emotional response.
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2007-09-30 07:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by mrcricket1932 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone gets the bum rap at one time or another. You can fall for their b.s., or you can just hold your head high, and weed out the people who won't listen to nonsense and want to find out for themselves, who you are. Many people judge others everyday..If you are being percieved as someone you're not, then take a good look at yourself, and be sure it's not you doing it to yourself by projecting yourself to others as someone else. Usually tho, it's some sad sack with no life doing the talking
2007-09-30 07:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people will never perceive others as thy truly are. keep improving yourself in some way, keep being who you are and don't worry about what other people think
2007-09-30 07:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by Shelley S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was gonna say ,,,talk to them but, talk is cheap. show them who you r. make the real" you " undeniable and try not to worry what others think of you,,life is too short
2007-09-30 07:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone perceives you as a function of their beliefs and traumas. so do not worry. how do you perceive yourself?
2007-09-30 07:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋