I am 13 and in 8th grade. I am 5' 9" tall and I'm obviously long legged. All of my mom's friends say my legs are sexy, but I don't think guys at my school do. What age do you think do guys start liking long legs? Your opinion and experience?
2007-09-29 20:05:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All guys are different. I found 1 girl's legs beautiful when I was 19 but most of the time I never cared as long as the girl wasn't fat.
I agree with one person that you shouldn't worry so much about looking sexy at 13 y/o. Also, never believe what middle age women say about what makes a girl attractive. They don't know what men their own age find attractive, much less what young boys find attractive!
If I was you, I would try to be yourself. Then if a boy likes you, he actually likes YOU, not some packaging that you put together or some act you are doing. Not that packaging isn't nice and most people have to put forth effort to be attractive.
Again, if I was you, I would be more concerned about what you like in a boy. Is it only physical things? Physical things are nice but it is much more important how the boy treats you.
I confess that when I was young, that I was more concerned about how pretty a girl was than how she treated me. I was ignorant and stupid!
It took me until I was 35 y/o before I learned that and only caring how pretty a girl was caused me a lot of heartache. Maybe it won't take you as long to learn to focus on how the person treats you as it did me.
Your teen dating years are actually better spent in learning what is important to you in a boy/man, so that when you are old enough and want to get married, you will know what it is in a man that will make him a husband that you can live with for a lifetime.
To learn that, you first have to learn about yourself. Try different activities that are wholesome and are at the same time fun for you to do. Learn what your interests are.
I used to work as a RN on psychiatric unit and had to learn how to asses a person quickly. From the few sentences that you wrote, you seem like a wonderful girl who will soon become a wonderful young woman.
Don't short change your self. You deserve a happy adult life and to have that you need to make good, responsible decisions in your teen years. God bless you.
2007-09-29 20:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just middle aged women think long legs are sexy.
Stop listening to the old ladies and focus on your key demographic.
2007-09-29 20:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys prefer legs and others prefer breasts, butts etc. I happen to be a breast man and the only things I require of legs is feet at one end and a vagina at the other.
2016-05-17 07:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will probably take a couple of years for them to come to a real appreciation.
It is typical for boys to lag behind the gals in your age group. then in what seems like forever, they catch up.
2007-09-29 20:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by Wildflower 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
play basketball worry about boys later
2007-09-29 20:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by denverite07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At puberty which is around your age.
2007-09-29 20:08:07 · answer #6 · answered by Underground Man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋