well i baby-sit for these bratty kids. they behave so bad. their mom gave me full permission to spank them. she said to give them a warning and if they don't listen, take them over my knee and pull down their pants and spank them till their butt turns red. i dont know if i feel comfortable giving them spankings but i have given a couple before with a bare butt. do you think i should keep giving them until they behave or not? what do you think? thanks in advance.
2007-09-29 18:51:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
If you are not comfortable with baring their little bottoms, spank them with their underwear on. Underwear will keep their "private parts" covered but is not thick enough to offer any real protection. It will still hurt enoug to get the point across
2007-09-30 01:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If they get spanked by their parents probably they have gotten used to it, and you being a girl may not spank them as hard as their parents do, so they might laugh it off. If you have their parents' permission there is nothing wrong with spanking these kids on the bare, but you may find that it is not effective in making them behave better.
If they are just very bratty why not look for some other kids to babysit?
2007-09-30 04:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by cyranonew 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable doing it with their pants down, then take the cue NOT to do it. If they are still misbehaving after all these spankings until their bottom turns red, then maybe it's time for the mother to think of alternative punishments, because this obviously isn't working.
2007-09-30 02:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like the kids need some firm boundaries and rules, not physical beatings. In my opinion, hitting children teaches them nothing. Spanking shames children and especially spanking on the bare skin. I think that's highly inappropriate for any age, even from the parents. Children learn best with consistent firm boundaries, teaching, and guidance.
2007-09-30 03:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by LilacsAbloom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's inappropriate & wrong for you to give someone else's child a bare butt spankin. You should give them a warning then a time out. If they won't behave for you, than refuse to babysit for them.
2007-09-30 02:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by tanner 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not comfortable with it than don't. You do not have to spank bare bottom....maybe, you could try another method! Good luck!!
2007-09-30 02:01:38 · answer #6 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
as long as the spanking isn't to savere i'd do it and have no problems with it. i'm from the old school
2007-09-30 02:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by ektdeul50 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
a belt works better than your hand but spank them if they parents prefer it over a belt but you should definitely spank them you have to puut up with them maybe not until their butts turn red
2007-09-30 02:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by ~Love...Peace...Happiness~ 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
No wonder StupidKupid chose that name! What he or she suggests is actually illegal in today's more enlightened society.
If you remove these children's pants to spank them, you run the risk of being charged with child abuse.
It's no wonder they behave the way they do if that's how their bad behaviour is modified.
I suggest you find yourself a new job with respectable people.
2007-09-30 02:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Sally Anne 7 · 2⤊ 5⤋
I agree with StupidKupid
2007-09-30 04:23:21 · answer #10 · answered by jazzman 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋