..ok my boyfriend accused me of cheating just because he saw me in a picture hugging a guy friend on facebook.. i told him obvioulsy i wasnt cheating and then i told him i wanna break up because im not happy with him...and he was telling me foolishness like he's always there for me and now im abandoning him and stuff..which isnt true because he never pays any attantion to me anyways cuz he's always working and we hardly go out together anymore..so wats the point of being with eachother? and its only been three months soo idk...i dont wanna be wit someone who im not happy with...i like him a lot but im bored with him..i tried breaking up with him before and told him we needed a break but he doesnt wanna accept it..he says im abondaning him..idk what should i do? advice please..
2007-09-29 16:16:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to break up than break up. I mean he is treating you like his little toy..u don't want be like that ure falling for the "but I do everything" card dont do it. trust me.
2007-09-29 16:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a control freak, and you're playing in to his game.
Only one of you needs to want to break up; it takes two to make a relationship. When he says you are abandoning him, tell him no, you're freeing him to find happiness with someone who will care for him more than you do. Be very firm. He's using words to try to control you, and likely will continue. You don't owe him more than a reasonable explanation, you don't have to take his calls, or help him get through it. You do have to walk away.
YOU decide who you spend time with. If you are finished being with him, say so, and say goodbye. Then do not look back.
2007-09-29 16:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off it sounds as if you and this guy really need to have a heart to heart conversation about your relationship you need to know where you stand. You cant get mad at him because hes always working it's called bills so i think your being a little harsh about him working all the time .I'm sure he has days off so make the most out off them and when hes at work find ways to communicate like text each other or e- mail.
2007-09-29 16:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by Marsha C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes being stupid oyu are write but hey if oyu are bored with the relationship then yea let him go and search for something more and tell him its not working out then tell him its to bad but listen if oyu let him go nad he comes back then maybe it was ment to be and what oyu really are looking for might be just a silly little fairy tale but hey do what you can but dont listen to any stupid answers on here just listen to oyur heart talk to me if oyu want more info lovergirl_82@yahoo.com
2007-09-29 16:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by lovergirl_82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him he is probly the one cheating on you and is over jealous. i read in my health book that you dont want to be with a jealous guy because they can get abusive if you push them and then he will get violent and crap
2007-09-29 16:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by Eli M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN! That is what you do girl...run far...run fast..and I am not kidding! This guy is unstable and this could get uglier the longer it continues. Nip it! Nip it in the bud...yesterday!
I am serious.
2007-09-29 16:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by Chaz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him its over.
He can't make the rules, you guys aren't married!
2007-09-29 16:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listin to him brake up with him he just tryin to get his way with you!!!
2007-09-30 13:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by Blondest_Brunett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol because he's a guy and we guys are stubborn bellyrubbing lazyass ***** =]
2007-09-29 16:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
walk away quickly.....no run !!!
2007-09-29 16:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by FREE4ALL8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋