I broke-up with my boyfriend and he still likes me but I like someone else and sometimes I find myself liking my ex-boyfriend again. What do I do and who do I choose??
2007-09-29 15:06:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you broke up with him, then that means there are some things you can not stand about him.
How easy is it for you to ignore those? If it is that easy, then take him back.
However, be prepared for some kind of revenge from him (if he is that kind of a guy) He may be trying to win you back to get the chance to be the one to dump YOU the same way you dumped him.
2007-09-29 15:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give the other guy a chance. You broke with your b/f probably for a good reason. We tend to want to forget the bad stuff because our heart pulls us back. Just remember WHY you broke up in the first place. Has anything changed? If not, give the new guy a chance to be everything he is not. If he does not prove good enough, move along. There are plenty of men out there. Don't see both, only because if either one finds out, you will feel badly.
2007-09-29 22:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by Marissa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend is having this same problem right now too. First of all there has to be a reason that you broke up with him....take time to go over what happened between you two and make sure that you don't want to get back together before you start going with another guy...give yourself a little time to think about what makes you happy the most.....which guy do you think makes you more happy? go over it a bit and think about it.....do you really feel anything for your ex? Because my friend says that she kissed her ex for the last time and didn't really feel anything which is not a good sign....so figure out who makes you more happy......best of luck to you.
2007-09-29 22:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chose who you feel that you have the best chance with. I vote against the boyfriend. Why do you want someone with whom, for whatever reason, you are no longer together with?
Look inside and ask yourself, why do you stilll like your ex? Do you stil have genuine feelings for him, or are you still holding out for the possibility that you will get back together? Also, are you still holding on to him, to avoid getting hurt with a new relationship. What makes you still like him "again" as you say? You really need to reevaluate who you want to be with, why you want to be with them, and if you should be with anyone at all.
Sounds like you need to step away from both people, you aren't being fair to either of them, nor are you being true to yourself.
2007-09-29 22:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by contessaharridan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there probably is a pretty good reason why you broke up with ur ex
so i would say stay with the new guy
and if anything goes wrong with the new guy try not to go running back to ur ex cuz getting back together with exs usually is hard and doesnt usually work out
2007-09-29 22:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by izzydwight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you do not like him back anymore and you likesomeone else then do not feel obligated to have to get back together, afterall there is a reason why he is your ex and not your present. so follow your heart and becareful not to lead anyone on that will not only break someones heart but it will cause a huge fight between two boys.
2007-09-29 22:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by alexia's mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the new guy, there is a reason your ex is your ex. There is a possiblity you can still be friends, but it might cost you the new guy in the end.
2007-09-29 22:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, ask yourself, who do you like more.
And what was the reason you two broke up?
If it was bad like cheating or he hurt you...go with the other guy
If you two broke up because of differences. Go with the other guy. Give the new guy a chance.
2007-09-29 22:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by C Babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your are HONEST with the both of them---tell your ex that you are seeing other people although you would not mind seeing him at times---and tell the new guy that you want to just date now, than just get yours and DATE the both of them. NOTICE THE STRESS ON DATE......(no physical stuff)
2007-09-29 22:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by blanquita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey wake up
Don't choose....date both...be honest and tell them both...if they have a problem with it tell them to go away....
all over the world people kill other people because some one is with someone they are not supposed to be with....
Stop the maddness
2007-09-29 22:13:08 · answer #10 · answered by FREE4ALL8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋