Even when you trust her not to intrude your privacy and secrets. Is it betrayal?
2007-09-29 15:03:45 · 22 answers · asked by ButterMilkQueso 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is betrayal and I would really wonder how much she cares about you.
2007-09-29 15:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gossping to friends is such a girl thing - and it's quite an immature thing also but they all seem to do it at some point. If you have asked her not to repeat certain information you discussed with her, then yes, it's a betrayal of your trust and proof that you cannot trust her. If she keeps repeating this behavioiur then she certainly has no respect for you and it's time to decide if this is the kind of relationship you want to be in.
If you have told her things and just expect her not to say anything but you actually have not told her to keep it a secret, it's time you did!
2007-09-29 22:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would consider the fact that she can't be trusted with any personal information and I would get a new girlfriend. If it bothers you now it will rip you apart later when you realize nothing is sacred and you brought it on yourself by staying with her. Find someone you can trust not someone you have to change because that doesn't work. As far as it being betrayal, not if you know she is going to do it because that is who she is. Learn to live with it or learn to leave it.
2007-09-29 22:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by riseball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go forward. Change only happens to individuals who see the need to change. Not only is being critical regarding your past habits to folks who don't know you, she is attempting to demean you in the eyes of "her" acquaintances. This translates into her attempts to establish domination over you, which is actually a symptom of her own feelings of insecurity. Dang...the games folks play are incredible. Do not ask her for another date, and go to a place of your interests, you know, museum, music concert, opera, sports events, or the sports bars that have a lot of TV's. If you attend events of your interest you ll find your honey. Just getting laid isn't worth being demeaned.
2007-09-29 22:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be very hurt & upset if my husband carried on like that & repeated things i have asked him not to repeat!!
Just give her one more chance (if you want to) & tell her not to EVER repeat private things you have asked her not to because it destroys the trust & its a betrayal but she may not mean it as nasty
she may just have a big mouth!!
2007-09-29 22:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by ausblue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be very hard to build a trusting relationship with someone who does that. You will ultimately have to protect your heart from her if she will not value you. If you explain to her how it makes you feel when she does such a thing and she still continues, then you must guard your heart from her even if it means having distance from each other. Respect yourself enough to guard your heart.
2007-09-29 22:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by David C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not suppose to do that that is not nice what she knows is between you in her is suppose to be a secret hush hush.
is not betrayal just tell her to stop try to scary her that you will let her go if she keep doing that.
2007-09-29 22:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by elnadia75 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her that you might get mad if she keeps telling your secrets, and it is not betrayal. Girls really do that kind of stuff.
2007-09-29 22:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by xclaesx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur right u need 2 talk to her and if she continues to do that then tell her u cant trust her enough and that u just want 2 be friends
2007-09-29 22:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by impartytrained 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would talk to her about it and say hey hun i just really would like it if u dont talk about my old habits cuz they are something i am trying to put in the past and i dont want to have to hear about it
and if she doesnt understand then i just wouldnt trust her
if she stops it means she didnt meen it and she loves u
2007-09-29 22:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by izzydwight 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋