My lil sis ran away from home and she was found today. What i should do?

Question

She ran away from home with a total unknown guy to us and found in a room with him at his house. I'm eff pissed-off and i feel like strangling her!! The problem here is, she's only 11 and had already d courage to run away with some old, adult guy. I'm very, very mad and I told her f off and told her indirectly she's not my sister. But, i'm confused. What i should really do? I actually don't give sh*t at all of whatever she wanna do; she can go f---ing around and get all kinda STDs she wants, but i pity my parents. They're d only reason i forced myself to feel responsible & concerned. She's d last in my famly, & has alwiz been secretive. Me& my big sis suspect dat it's juz dat she got wrong companies in her all-girls school. I never really bother about her and it's like no difference whether she exists or not, i pretended i was concerned juz bcoz people say i have to.

sorry just now i'm still mad at her. EXCUSA MOI, i'm right now taking dental surgery bachelor's degree and pliz dun write as if u r smarter than bill gates. i'll type the as d as much as i want to. yeah, maybe u guys r right. maybe she's just lonely that i dun really spend time with her. my family treats her good, oh cmon d last child alwiz gets d 1st class treatment! we've spoiled her with money, handphone, cds, toys, all sorta entertainment you name it. my parents don't have d courage to scold her now. i think it's my fault for never listening to her. i'd been rebellious like her, so i know how does it feel to be lonely & full of angst. She's keeping her text messages secret & i thought dat's fine bcoz it's her privacy. even my mama had never checked her cellphone.guess i have to change d way i treat her from all diz time

yup, when i'm mad, imagine system of a down swearing loudly. from all this time, i had never scolded her although she's done so many stupid things. now she must be brain-washed! how could she went off just like that during midnight hiking d guy's bike?? his place is so damn far from my home! my parents give everything to her & this is her way showing gratitude???? i'm still fumed!!! i was in my university doing my report when suddenly my mom called me diz morning. i dun wanna hear that voice tone again, it's too unbearable. KIDS, DUN RUN AWAY FROM UR HOME.

Answer 1

First of all , the adult male has to go to jail......... She is underage even if she left of her own free will..... he should be charged with rape and kidnapping.......... as for your sister this is horrible how you treat her... she is a baby..... she needs your help and guidance.... your family is all you have........ you need to step up and become a big sister....... become a responsible person........ help this girl............ if you cant do , then find someone who can....... before she is lost in the system and we lose yet another child........ ...
...... do you talk to her like you write and spell??

Answer 2

you know what?
I'm really sorry you dont care about your sister. Shes your sister you should be worried she obviously is going through something, she must be struggling with something and you and your big sister should be concerned maybe if you tried talking to her and finding out what was wrong you could help her. If you dont care then why did you ask what you should do? if you dont care then why do you want to know how to help? Thats what Im gathering from the question. Your sister is a little girl she knows nothing about some of the worthless humans who wonder the earth she is obviously trying to escape from something happening at home or school, and shes doing this by looking for refuge out in the big scary world. Thats what running away is. She doesnt know that by running away your problems increase rather then decrease, many kids who runaway end up alone, penniless, on the street, having been raped or drugged and end up hungry with no one to help them. Some even die by the vicious muderers and pimps that roam the street. The dangers of running away are far to great to explain in detail I could probably do a 5 pg essay on the topic. Talk to your sister or have your parents talk to her and resolve the issue before its too late and she runsaway again and maybe this time you wont find her until shes reported as a druggie,rapped or worse ....dead. help her she really does need a lot of help shes too young to be having any problems that could cause her to want to run away.Best of luck! I hope I helped.

Answer 3

well maybe cuz u spoiled her so much with electronics, she doesnt know the difference between right and wrong...

plus, if shes not getting attention from the smaller bad things shes done, this is her way of pushing the game further--her parents need to crawl out of their little scaredy hole and lay down the law! this is NOT how she should be spending her life!!! ESPECIALLY as an 11yr old!!! and the fact that all you want to do is sit there and watch isnt helping things!! maybe you DO care if ur making such a big deal about it, and thats a GOOD THING!!!

she needs to go and get help if her own parents dont care about their own daughter enough to stop something before its too late! dont you see??? this isnt going to fix itself!!! nobody online can help you either!!! she needs REAL help with a REAL person, face to face, who knows what they are doing!!! no 11 yr old should be going around with older guys! this is how rape happens--the kid thinks they are in charge, but really the adult is controlling them and thats how rapists go about!

you need to do somthing, NOW, or i swear you need to GET A CLUE!!! im sorry if this has offended you, but this is important, and isnt going to fix itself!

Answer 4

I'm going to say that it is pretty sick that you are not worried about your sister. There is something that is really bothering her and she needs all the people who will support her. You need to teach her the way to act because obvious she doesn't know. I think that you need to at least be the big brother you are and help her understand the consequences. I hope that things do work out though. I wish your sister and your family luck and hope that everything turns out.

Answer 5

I suppose you will have to speak for your dad, alleviation him and guarantee him that it is not his fault, he is simply being a dependable dad. Call the police to and uncover your sister, even though your mad at your sister you will have to speak to her and uncover out why she's long gone so off the rails, there possibly a cause like shes depressed beacuse faculties to rough or shes disappointed approximately your household. Tell your sister she's being unfair and is provoking you and your household alot. I wish this is helping, well good fortune :)

Answer 6

First of all... she's your sister. You should be concerned for her because you love her, not because you pity your parents. I'm sorry that you don't have any compassion whatsoever for her... maybe if you did she wouldn't have been in this mess to begin with.

Second... It's "the" not "d". No wonder kids nowadays can't write decent term papers.

Answer 7

Read your full question, you can see why she might be flaky. You don't care if she exists or who she f around or get std from. This girl wants OUT of your family, no matter WHO she has to go with. I can't say I blame her.

Answer 8

I can see the picture of your family from here A very DISFUNTIONAL FAMILY I hope GOD never puts me on your path becaus you are very evil But I have lots of pity for your little sister

Answer 9

idk what u should really do but did u tell ur parents runing away like that is not good and she is only eleven did she like really do anything with him or what ?maby its becaues she is at a allgirls high school it might be driving her crazy or something im in high school with girls and boys and most of my friends are guys but im not sneeking out and running off with them or anything.

Answer 10

Your question was, what should I do. I think you already did it sis.