2007-09-29 14:25:31 · 9 answers · asked by chinesechickenbauk 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
you know, my dad passed 20 years ago and for several years, I took birthday cards, father's day cards to the grave. There is nothing wrong with doing that if it help bring you some sort of peace. Geez this past fathers day, i wrote him a poem, my husband made a frame and we framed it and placed it on a stake and it is still at the grave site. You do what makes you happy to hell with what others think. So sorry for your loss.
2007-09-29 14:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone deals with grief in their own way. I see absolutely nothing wrong with bringing a card to a grave site or memorial site.
2007-09-29 21:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by galapagos6 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well in my opinion if he is there and cant find any other place to give my card then why not the presence is the best
2007-09-29 22:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by sherlina z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How you greive is your purrogative. How we memorialize people that have passed is our choice, and if you deem it appropriate, then who am I to say it is not?
2007-09-29 21:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's actually fine.
2007-09-30 01:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with it if you'd like to do it.
2007-09-30 01:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a lovely idea.
2007-09-29 22:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by boofuswoolie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and who is going to read it lol..... how about flowers for the gravesite and save your money no cake is needed
2007-09-29 21:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by clever1 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
it's fine..
2007-09-29 22:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by x10mae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋