that i want him to hold my hand?
I usually "accidentally" touch his hand but he always moves it away. Does he know I wanna hold his hand but hes not ready or does he not know that i want to or does he just not wanna hold hands with me?Yes,my hands are clean.No mean comments please.Rude comments will be reported.Thanks in advance.
2007-09-29 14:22:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well im 12 and my last bf and i wer really close. it was a dare the first time, then after than we did it all the time, i think he feels uncomfortable in some way, maybe he thinks that you dont wanna and he doesnt wanna pressure you.
2007-09-29 14:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by Tara ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm... why does he always move his hand away? Is he shy? Does he not want to make you uncomfortable? These are some of the questions you should ask yourself.
But if you don't really know why he's acting this way, you should definitely tell him. This is just one of the ways you both will need to communicate. If this relationship is going to last long, you both need to know that you guys will be doing a lot more talking things out from now on :)
So don't beat yourself up over this--if you don't know the answer, you know who to ask!
2007-09-29 21:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by calamityjanedoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a little bit of self confidence. He's your boyfriend because he wants to be, because he likes your company. I think you should take a deep breath and just go for it, sometimes guys are more unsure about things than we give them credit for, may be he's a little shy about it?? If but remote chance he doesn't want to hold your hand then you need to ask him why and see if you can work through it. hope this helps chick xx
2007-09-29 21:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by Catielou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? That seems awfully odd to me. He should WANT to hold your hand.
I'd try just taking his hand. If he pulls away, maybe he's not the right guy for you. I'm sure there are others who would love to hold your hand.
2007-09-29 21:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know you want to hold his hand?
One of the keys to relationships is communication.
Try telling him you like to, and want to hold hands. If he refuses, are you with the right guy?
Enjoy
2007-09-29 21:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you need ask from to hold hand with you he promable have sweaty hand because is scaryed about stuiped thing that he dose or says that promable or just ask why he didnt wanna hold hands with you
2007-09-29 21:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by lindsey s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him he can answer it alil better than we can but it could be that he just dont like to hold hands or he thinks its goign to fast and dont want it too who knows u would have to ask him and he could tell u y he dont or why he does what he does good luck with it.
2007-09-29 21:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by Someoneslilgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he just isn't the touchy, feely type of guy. Next time he pulls his hand away, ask him why. If it is in public places maybe he doesn't like to show emotion publicly.
2007-09-29 21:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks your hand is just in the way? Next time, just gently rub his hand and see where that gets u. Good luck=)
2007-09-29 21:27:09 · answer #9 · answered by *+* Miss NATION*+* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, you're too young to hold hands.
2007-09-29 21:25:14 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋