ok so im 16 years old, (nearly 17) and have never kissed a guy!! ive came close to it alot of times, but i can never gather up the courage to just do it! I feel like such a weirdo! lol!
Everyone i know can't understand why i havent been kissed yet coz im quite pretty, but the truth is im scared coz i dont know how to! im just afraid of messing it up!!
anyone got any advice? x
2007-09-29 13:19:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Wait until you find the right guy and it feels right. If you rush it, you'll regret it. Everyone moves at their own pace- don't let your friends make you feel bad about it.
2007-09-29 13:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by HumphreyCat 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you meet the right guy and are ready for kissing you'll be just fine. Don't just kiss some dude just so you can kiss, that's just silly. Like I said, when Mr. right comes along you'll be willing and able to kiss him and if there's true emotional connection you CAN'T mess it up. You're not odd at all, it's a true testimony to your character that you've waited for your first kiss to be special :)
2007-09-29 20:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by sheyna 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you find someone you like talk to them about how you have never kissed before. You could start by letting him kiss you on the cheek. Gradually, the kisses could get closer to your mouth. I have not kissed that many people either. I can only remember bad smelly kisses. This is why I do not enjoy mouth kissing. Best Wishes
2007-09-29 20:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by Hopefully Helpful 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its not hard. its scary at first but once you do, you wont be worryed about it anymore. if someone tries to kiss you and you want to kiss them, just do it. its not like hes going to insult you. if he really likes you he probably wont even notice. tell the guy how you feel if you get in the situation, tell him your scared to kiss and if he likes you he will understand. and he'll help you be more comfortable about it. just do it.. cause if you think about it the first person you kiss is not the last person your going to be with so even if you mess it up way down the road. noone will remember and it wont matter
2007-09-29 20:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by face:face 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry bout it ..some guys kiss like an over fed St. Bernard. You will find the one to kiss when you are good and ready..dont worry what other people think
2007-09-29 20:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by hatingmsn 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My first kiss we knocked teeth. I felt silly. But, you know, most of us don't seem to do it so well the first time. It takes practice to do a little better. I think you have yourself worked up too much over something that is going to happen sooner or later.
2007-09-29 20:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by Simmi 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yeah I have advice. stop thinking that you're a freak just because you're not as slutty as other girls your age. you should be proud of yourself. alot of girls your age have already lost thier virginity, but you're stronger than them and have self-respect. I didn't kiss anyone until I was 18, and I'm not a weirdo.
2007-09-29 20:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by Me 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right for both of you, you will know what to do and won't mess it up. Until then, don't worry, especially about peer group pressure. When the time is right, the time is right and it will be right!
2007-09-29 20:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by geniepiper 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
don't rush yourself, but if you find somebody you really like, take your time and you will get your first kiss. it will just happen, so be calm when it does, you won't mess up and if you do, that's fine, the more you worry, the worse you will make yourself feel.
Cheers!
2007-09-29 20:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
everything will be ok... just let it happen.. When you kiss just pucker up a bit then open your mouth a bit... Just be soft... Good luck Grant M in Pennsylvania
2007-10-03 20:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋