My friend is a female and we are very good friends. I think she is going with another one of my friends to homecoming and I really mad because I told her my feelings about her in 7th btw were in 9th grade now. I ask her out in 7th grade and she said she would have gone out with me, but her parents said she was too young. I don't think she knows about how going to homecoming with another friend is making me depressed and sad. Should I do something or just let it unfold? I have only 1 class with her and for some reason in school she doesn't talk to me a lot, which saddens me. I talk to her mostly on facebook and sometimes e-mail. What can I do about this situation? :(
2007-09-29 13:15:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relax a little bit...you told her something two years ago, and unless you've been reinforcing that notion strongly ever since, it's entirely possible that she either forgot or she thought you'd changed your mind. Besides, when you're young you don't have a lot of control over how things go...parents have to drive you, and things of this nature, so her going with another friend isn't the disaster it might be if you were both in your mid-20s. You can just as easily meet her there and dance with her all night long if you want to.(Most of the girls I took to Homecoming dances weren't significant "items" to me, and I can actually remember few of their names. Of course the prom is a different story altogether...) The point is, don't make a big thing out of that. There's still plenty of room to advance your cause, but you've got to go ahead and DO that. One "flirtation" every two years isn't going to amount to much unless you've got a decade to invest into pursuing her. Good luck.
2007-09-29 13:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortuntaly it sounds like she doesnt like you more than a friend or she might not want to risk yalls friendship. If she did like you a lot she would talk to you more in school and she would be going with you to homecoming, not your friend. Also she might have made up that excuse about her parents not letting her date in 7th grade to not hurt your feelings.
2007-09-29 20:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i definately have a solution on this if u still like her u gta make sure u need to talk to her WAAAY more in school. tht is prolly y she didnt knoe tht u liked her. than u should tell her tht even though shes goin wid sum1 else, if she would consider goin wid u. then if u dnt want to tell her in person do it on facebook ^^ still romantic to me ^^
2007-09-29 20:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by miranda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋