I have chased girls that play hard to get, and been called a stalker by girls. You girls have acted the same why both times. So at what point is it satlking compared to playing your game of chase? One time i was playing her game of chase than one day she stoped talking to me and all of a sudden it turned to stalking and i stoped right away why do you girls do that?
2007-09-29 13:03:51 · 6 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is why I refuse to chase or pursue girls that play this hard to get mind game , if a girl shows signs of interest in me I will ask her out and if she say's she's busy or want's a rain check I don't ask again..When I was still married I would watch girls lead my friends on with flirting and signs of interest and when they did pursue or chase them the girls would say the guy is stalking them..I think some girls do it for attention and to feel wanted by men and they have no intentions of ever dating them , it's just a big mind game some women play to feel better about themselves because of their low self esteem...Women love attention and when you give it to them they call it stalking..There are girls that don't play the chase me game...
2007-09-29 13:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of like it when a guy gives me that kind of attention, I mean I dont want him showing up in my bedroom, unless we were playing a role playing thing, or beating up suitors when I expressed that I wasnt interested at all. But I think I admire a guys ability to do everything in his power to win. I dont see it as a bad thing as long as he follows the law. I remember one of my most posessive boyfriends would leave flowers on my car everywhere I went, hehe, you could say it was creepy but it was pretty flattering that he cared where I was almost ALL the time...why didnt I stay with him? Well I was young and curious and I ended up cheating while he went away to Leadership School, he was in the military, and I was a dumbass at that time. He stayed my friend for many years after that but he said he didnt feel the same after I told him, so that is how it got screwed up. Just remember there will be a girl who appreciates you for your intensity :) Take Care.-Rachel.
2007-09-29 20:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference in being chased and being stalked. Stalking is unwanted attention, it's not very nice, and it's ILLEGAL! If you cannot differentiate between the two, you're really in a lot of trouble.
2007-10-01 16:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she tells you she is not interested in you, leave her alone. That is not playing hard to get--that is her way of saying back off.
2007-09-29 20:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stalking is like waiting by her house or following her home or turning up wherever she is. then the game becomes awkward.
2007-09-29 20:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends...you've got to find a balance.be attentive but not give em too much attention. ;)
2007-09-29 20:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by still has hope 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋