How to get a gf?

Question

Hi. Im 15 and desperately need 2 get with a girl. All my friends have been with girls b4 and have girlfriends.I have never even got intimate with a girl and find it a bit embaressin. im in good shape and am not ugly, but i cant get a girlfriend :-( any suggestions?

Answer 1

Get off the computer and talk to girls. That's a start.

Answer 2

Being intimate with a girl shouldn't feel "embarrassing." Being intimate with a girl is expressing your feelings towards her and vice versa, and there's absolutely nothing wrong about that.

Now, if you want a girlfriend because you've never experienced the dating scene and/or because your friends have had g/f's in the past, then quite honestly it sounds like you only say that because you feel left out. You're probably wondering what could be wrong with you. There's nothing wrong with not ever having a girlfriend. Just give it time.. your time will come. Plus, there is so much more than just having a girlfriend. Do you have a job? If so, are you ready to take her out to dinner, treat her to the movies? Do you think you'll have time to concentrate on school, work and a girl? See, these are some of the things you need to look into before having a girlfriend. Again, don't have a girlfriend because all your friends have one or dated in the past. Have a girlfriend because you would like to be with that special someone.
If you're determined to have one right now, see if one of your friends can set you up with someone. And then see how it goes from there.

good luck!!

Answer 3

As a 16 year-old male, I can give you one piece of advice.
If your cool with not having been with a girl, so will every one else.
If your cool, calm and confident no one will care, they'll just think you have lots of self respect and just aren't into the whole girlfriend thing right now.
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On another level though, if you REALLY need to get a girlfriend (which you don't, you just may feel that way) then...
Step back. Asses all the girls you like, do they flirt with me? Am I doing all the flirting? Could it work out?
If you can pick one girl out from the list, then it's time to hone your love makin' skills towards her. Flirt with her, make her feel special and something may come of it, just make sure you do this slowly otherwise you may have some restraining orders filed. =P

To sum it all off, you don't need a girlfriend. Woman even respect guys that don't get involved easily as it makes them feel special when you do.
~Good Luck Lady Hunting~

Answer 4

I think your main problem is that you feel embarassed when your with a girl. Girls dont want their guys to be embarrased but proud to have them as their gf. So try and boost up your confidence and communicate with girls you meet at school or at your local hang out spots. Everything else sounds good about you, make sure you stay in good shape and smell good, since having bad breath or not smelling nice is a big turnoff for girls. Just stay cool, boost up your confidence a little and make sure to communicate. If you just follow these rules, I dont know why a girl wouldnt want to be your gf.
Hope I helped =)

Answer 5

Don't feel bad. I used to work with men in their 30s who never been kissed by a girl. (No lie). You see some weirdos when working in an overmanned computer shop. You have an entire 25 years before you become the next Andy.

Answer 6

not because your friends all Have girls means you most have one to. not everything your friends do you have to do. good things come to those who wait my child. so first thing is to be yourself, stop looking for a girlfriend and go about your life, when your take your time you would be surprise the girl you might meet but when you rush things before its time you can get Young little heart broken. don't worry you will get one just be yourself and not you friends. peer pressure is a sad thing, don't let it get the best of you.

Answer 7

You should talk to girls alot. And also ask for their numbers. Maybe you will have something in common with a girl that you know.Best Wishes 2 u! Rock On!!!!!

Answer 8

smile alot
flowers
help someone do something
talk to girls
go to a movie
be clean
nice
don't be mean
walk with them
make friends
smell good
tell them nice things
hold hands
don't be pushy
laugh
make them smile and laugh too
listen to music
be carefull
your time will come. good luck.

Answer 9

Let’s just say as long as you’re slick with words, you can have any woman that you lust for. Look, it’s all about the confidence. Life is a game. It’s called a confidence game. But what you have with you everytime you glance at her is fear. Now the question is: how do you nail the girl you desire? By installing the fear within her. With all the vital signs you have given me, it is clear to say that this girl is playing hard to get. And this is actually a good thing, because no matter what, girls like the attention even though you may think she is not interested in you. The best thing to do is always be yourself. Ask to see if she wants to go out to lunch or grab a quick bite to eat. Take her out to a movie or help her out with whatever she is currently doing (schooling, work, etc). Give her advice and make her feel special by being there by her side no matter what. For starters, if you wish to be sweet and calm as possible, tell her there is something on her cheek and that you want to get rid of it. She will obviously would like to know what it is, and you pretend to get the imagined dust particle off her face. Her question would be "What is it?" Your reply is: "Beauty" Works like a charm. Also, imagine that you are in need of the time; you approach her and ask for the time. She gives it to you and you say: "Wow, really? That late? Well, one thing's for sure, if beauty were time you'd be eternity." Well, if you wish to be more comfortable with this person that you yearn for, I would suggest for you to perhaps obtain her MSN address at best. The Art of Seduction is a difficult practise to master, but I shall give you a few pointers. Alright, so as you mention you don't know this person oh so well, hence her first reaction when you try to add you to her MSN list, would be "Who is this?" This is where you would have to play hard to get and say as followed: It's never easy meeting a complete stranger, especially one as beautiful as you, without being properly introduced. But shall we try anyway? This is (your name). You have probably seen me ....." Following so far? Then, depending on her reaction, you would need to say: "You have probably heard of (name insert or fellow colleague or anyone of that matter). He bet that I wouldn't be able to start a conversation with the most beautiful girl on MSN. How I am doing so far?" If you do manage to go on a first date with her, I suggest you get her flowers and pull this one on her enclosed as a message within an envelope signed by you: “You should go and stand in front of a mirror and hold up 11 roses, so you would see 12 of the most beautiful things in the world.” It will make her go awwwww. Also, if you wish to show how much you care about her, I suggest you use the following tagline: “If I had a rose for every time I thought of you I'd be walking in a garden forever.” Also, try getting her lingerie as a gift. If you are not ready for that quite yet, just tell her that you simply like her. Believe me; girls go like “Awww, how cute,” when they receive lingerie as a gift. These of course should be used when you get to know her better. Writing a poem however is definitely a good way to kick it off, believe me. If you get all Shakespearean on her, the better. If you need more advice, feel free to contact me.

Answer 10

just b urself and a girls gona come and u kno be a lil flirty to girls that u like and stuff. good luck ^_^