Told this guy I like him last June.His answer was that I had guts and he was proud of me, what did that mean?I dunno.Since this year has started I've been getting guy attention weirdly.I still like the guy.Well,the guy I like has pissed me off a few times.Last week he called me a 'b' and he was pushing me around,literally.Then, one day I yelled at him to cut it out and he stopped.He started calling me names and I cursed him back with names of my own.He's been mean a bit.Then, when I saw him at Wendy's,on line,I said hi,and I noticed how AWKWARD he looked when I came.He had an awkward aura.When we all sat down with friends,he suddenly brings up the topic of how my eyes change with mood.Yest. him and a friend were poking/tick. me.He was very playful.Other day,he pointed to me, my friend and made a heart.I gave the bird.That ticked me off. But, yest. and the day before, he's hugged me longer than needed.Yest, he kept holding me in a hug, not able to leave."You're staying.""I gotta go." =/
2007-09-29 12:51:48 · 7 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm scared to get hurt, etc.He's usually a nice guy, but very immature.I have no idea why he was kinda mean to me.Two friends said that if he did that to me and my guy friend who I always hang out with,he might be jealous.His ex-girlfriend said he would take me for granted, and every days I can do so much better.I just can't help that I like him, he's nice to me.When my mom was in the hospital, he stayed with me outside until late late at night. he used to like me, and I liked him at that time. It was before his first and second relationships.The first lasted a week.The second(the ex whose a friend) was 5 months. I stayed away, it hurt. I asked if it was okay that I liked him, and she said sure.That it's fine with her, but told he he'd take me for granted. I've liked him for 3 years. He can be clueless, immature, and childish.But then again, so can I.I'm just a bit more mature. But, as to why he was snotty, well,sometimes I guess everyone is.First times ever he's been mean to me.
2007-09-29 13:04:55 · update #1
We're 17.He's usually a nice guy, but very immature.I have no idea why he was kinda mean to me.Two friends said that if he did that to me and my guy friend who I always hang out with,he might be jealous.His ex-girlfriend said he would take me for granted, and every days I can do so much better.I just can't help that I like him, he's nice to me.When my mom was in the hospital, he stayed with me outside until late late at night. he used to like me, and I liked him at that time. It was before his first and second relationships.The first lasted a week.The second(the ex whose a friend) was 5 months. I stayed away, it hurt. I asked if it was okay that I liked him, and she said sure.That it's fine with her, but told he he'd take me for granted. I've liked him for 3 years. He can be clueless, immature, and childish.But then again, so can I.I'm just a bit more mature. But, as to why he was snotty, well,sometimes I guess everyone is.First times ever he's been mean to me
2007-09-29 13:09:24 · update #2
We're 17 and seniors in hs.
2007-09-29 13:09:53 · update #3
stay away from guys who see it fit to call a woman a b**** and other disrespectful names. btw, he exhibits the classic signs of an abuser. do yourself a big favor and a lot of heart ache, find someone who will treat you with respect even when he's mad as all get out.
2007-09-29 12:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Cassor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO...If a person loves they will take care of you and treat you with respect. This person is picking on you and treating you with disrespect. People like this need to be ignored. He is eating every bit of attention he can get away with. Ignore him. You don't need people like that in your life. Hang out with friends that respect you and you respect them. Anything else is not worth your time. Life is short.
2007-09-29 19:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does a dog know if he has fleas? Yea well GF if a guy likes U, U know it cause hes there and your scratching him off. He will be on U way too much!
2007-09-29 19:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm is he usually mean around his friends? if he is its called peer prusser.
if not maybe he has mixed feelings about you.
or hws mean becaus he doesnt want you to like him anymore?
other than that i have no clue?
2007-09-29 19:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he's just leading you on.
Don't take it from him and since you say you've been getting attention from other guys, find another one and get over this guy. he seems like a f**ckass.
2007-09-29 19:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, i would say he does like you..hes just afraid to show it, so he uses bad language, and try to piss u off. thats what i honestly think..so good luck..and i think that u are barve to tell him that you liked him!!
ps could you please pick me as best answer..im not trying to sound needy. but im competing, and i really need the points!!
thxs =)
2007-09-29 19:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
god he sounds really immature. how old ru guys? and he was cursing at you calling u names and u stil care for him? wtf?? id kick his ***.
2007-09-29 19:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋