Ok here is the deal i have been with one sister for over 4 months now she is 24 thats not bad but she has a younger sister 22 me and her old sister have been together for 4 months now a few weeks ago we slept together and she told her younger sister it was great. Now when i go over there her younger sister will not stop rubing up on me and i have told my g/f about this and she does noting about it! Well last night her sister grab me and was rubing me when her sister went out of the room what do i do?
2007-09-29 11:17:10 · 5 answers · asked by crazy43078 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are several considerations here, You said your 'significant other' told her younger sister that "it was great". Now what motivated her to tell this, and the relationship between the girls. It could be a set up or it could be some kind of preparing behind your back.If this situation is like you described be very careful, and expect the unexpected!!
2007-09-29 11:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really there are only two likely possibilities:
1) The younger sister is desperately trying to prove she can take her sister's man. She'll use you and blab immediately to her sister.
2) Your girlfiend and her sister are testing you together. And as soon as you break down, your whole relationship goes poof.
Either way, put the little sister in her place. Tell her to stop touching you, and make it loud and public if she doesn't take the hint. Tell your girlfriend that you're really uncomfortable with her sister's behaviour and ask her what to do about it. Don't ask her to deal with it, just ask for advice.
Whatever you do, don't sleep with the sister, no matter what else happens or is said. Even if your girlfriend says she's okay with it, she's not. Sisters don't share men well, too much sibling rivalry. You'll just have a very nasty break up.
Good luck.
2007-09-29 11:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm write about it in penthouse? a decent guy would take himself out of the situation completely. the older sister has no self-respect or she wouldn't put up with it from the lil sis. the lil sis is a jerk because who would do that to her sister? and if they are both ok with this, decide if you're a scumbag and take advantage of them both and have a great story to tell your friends, or...be a good guy with respect for yourself and those around you and say you aren't interested, and leave.
2007-09-29 11:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by mizztanya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm...tell her sister and if she doesnt listen, just put ur foot down and make her understand....thats not right what her sister is doing to you and she should see that...good luck and i hope everything ends well between you three..
2007-09-29 11:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by lilruby052001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your foot down.....and if your gf won't support you then you should leave her.. I think that's quite childish to kiss and tell...so maybe you need someone more mature
2007-09-29 11:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by RedRoses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋