okay so i am visiting my ex boyfriend, that i was going to marry, at college. we were each others first everything (& love). a mutual friend of ours was randomly asking him about me. (he just borke up with the girl he started dating after me - rebound i think) he told our friend that dating me again is a definate possibility and he does think about it - but he doesnt want to get back into anything right away. then our friend asked him if he was interested in any other girl(s) and he said not so much that i am number one.
now by me birng number one that means there has to be a number two and so on. what can i do this weekend i visit him to seduce him to make me the one and only - i was his one and only for more then three years. and i understand he is in college and he might want to just mess around with other girls he has met - but him still being interested in me must mean something.
2007-09-29 10:30:22 · 4 answers · asked by PiratePrincess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i want to lock him into just me and make him forget about all these desperate and anxious easy college skanks. what can i do?
i will do almost anything - i seriously think i still love him
2007-09-29 10:30:51 · update #1
i think love is worth fighting for and im prepared to battle
2007-09-29 10:31:20 · update #2
Don't do anything rash or impulsive. You could end up regretting it later. First, think about why you broke up in the first place. If all those reasons are still valid, you have to decide what has changed to make you want him back. If your break up was just a rough patch you didn't get through, then you can try something.
As for making yourself stand out, go out on a date with the guy. Not a romp, but a friendly, fun date. Dress sexy and nice, not skanky. Try not to jump into bed right away, let him know you're serious and are in for the long term. If he's not ready for anything right now, he'll appreciate the lack of pressure and the two of you can take it slow. Then, keep in touch with him after. Call him every couple of days, small talk, get to know each other again.
If you both grow to love each other again, it'll work out quite naturally.
Good luck, to both of you.
2007-09-29 11:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree that it is worth fighting for. Just make sure ur not making a huge mistake. And i also feel that failure is not possible if u never give up. So go for it...and good luck!
2007-09-29 10:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jayde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If you love him then it's no question.
So what if there is other girls? If he loves you back, he will dump them.
He said you are his number 1.
2007-09-29 10:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its so tough. I tried to do this one and only ended up sleeping with him for months trying to get him to love me like I thought I loved him. I hope it works out for you and I hope you dont get your heart broken. If he still loves you, you wont have to do anything but be yourself.
2007-09-29 10:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by lovelylady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋