Is there anything strange about it?
2007-09-29 07:11:28 · 16 answers · asked by Carm Soprano 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
Great sex :p
2007-09-29 07:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between the perceptions wives have and husbands have when returning from deployment. Most guys can just pick up where we left off like nothing happened, but most women need time to get reacquainted. My wife and I don't have any children so it's almost harder for us. She is so independant when I'm deployed that she almost becomes a single person again. When I come back, we have to "date" before anything happens. The usually give a chaplains briefing before redeployment that covers this telling the guys not to expect to jump in bed with your wife as soon as you walk through the door. I usually take my wife out for dinner so we can hold hands and then we walk around the shops in the city so we can be arm in arm and get close then when we do get home we take things slowly with alot of touching and kissing and quite a bit of foreplay. I'd waited that long already, there's no need to rush during the last hour...and she appreciates the tender attention instead of a wham bam thank you ma'am...may I have another ma'am.
Don't worry if you feel awkward. It's normal.
2007-09-29 15:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by theGODwatcher_ 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Its hard! Your having a long distance Relationship and you have to work on that! (you dont hear from your spouse alot tho) And he can never really tell you what he is doin!
When he gets back he might be weird, cause he has to get used to the life here again! I heard alot of woman who had husband who had problems to sleep, were looking for there M-16 in the middle of the night! Its really not nice!
2007-09-30 18:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by your_fantasy87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing strange.. just a wonderful feeling that my husband is back home safe and my life is back to normal...plus alot of great sex lol
2007-09-29 14:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by *Army*Wife* 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For me it was kinda like having a stranger in the house again. Like I would get scared for a sec cause I was so used to being alone. Its wonderful though enjoy it before he has to go again =-)
2007-09-29 14:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's like having one of those 6 hour erections they warn you about on the Viagra commercials.
2007-09-29 14:18:14 · answer #6 · answered by Yak Rider 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
lots of sex but when that is done well then the fighting begins.its a huge adjustment to have to get back into the couple mode after being single and taking care of everything on your own its weird.
2007-09-29 14:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by kellie r 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
They look better than you remember usually - this is only after two months though, not two years.
2007-09-29 14:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by Dave 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something YOU'LL never experience with YOUR attitude towards the WORLD'S GREATEST FIGHTING FORCE...the UNITED STATES MILITARY.
2007-09-29 23:33:49 · answer #9 · answered by AmericanPatriot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is deployed and it wont be odd it will be like seeing each other for the first time again.
2007-09-29 14:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by A soldiers wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange? No - it was creative! It created a little fellow we named "Matt"...
2007-09-29 14:40:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋