2007-09-29 06:27:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Military
Don't let anyone tell you that all don't go to clubs. My wife's brother, who was deployed, found out his wife was not only clubbing, but also went home with someone. If that is not the lowest of lows, I am not sure what is. Luckily he found out her true colors and they are now divorced. I am not sure why women who choose a man in the military, knowing they risk lonely nights, can't live with their decision. It is a sickening thought. Having someone to talk to is totally different than going out clubbing as well, which makes the first answer here boneheaded. Don't they have friends?
2007-09-29 06:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, some go for the friendship of other Spouses that they normally wouldn't see. When your DH is Deployed, some wives or husbands, can't handle being at home alone all the time and not have the conversation of another adult. This is also true if there are kids in the home...the parent feels the need to have outside interests.
Then, there is the other side of the coin...where the Spouse who is back home is nothing but a whore...whether they are the wife or husband. Some Spouses just can't keep their legs closed/clothes on and feel that they need to fill the emptieness with sleeping with whoever will give them the time of day.
2007-09-29 06:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some Spouses go out to the club when their spouse is deployed just like some people go to the bar when their spouse is on a business trip. The vast majority of military spouses are great, loving and supportive. Those who go to the club with some girlfriends are just trying to get out of the house for a while and have a little fun just like guys who go to a bar. They aren't looking to hook up with Jody or anything. Of course there are a few bad apples, and those I guess stick out more to you than the normal spouses.
2007-09-29 06:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by darken40 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get a life. I don't know NOT ONE military spouse going to clubs. I DO know several military spouses who put up with a heck of a lot of sacrificing, crying and struggling.
I admire and salute everything the military spouse goes through. They ARE THE TRUE UNSUNG HEROS.
I do not respect ANYONE who talks like this about the backbone of our military.
I think you need to apologize.
I am a military spouse and I do nothing but support and honor my husbands sacrifice and I too am sacrificing a crap load.
2007-09-29 06:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
Not all spouses do that.
2007-09-29 06:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They need some one to talk to,
2 is a company
2007-09-29 06:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by mormonus 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why not? They can't enjoy their life?
Dancing, drinking and having a good time with friends is not disrespectful, it only makes you insecure!
You should trust your partner. Should he or she stay home and pine for you every minute? Let him or her have fun, and work on your self-esteem.
2007-09-29 06:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by Carm Soprano 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ummmmm, not all of them do that. I think its kind of a sad loveless marriage.
2007-09-29 06:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because they need 'companionship' and the spouse is not there to give it to them.
2007-09-29 06:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by r1b1c* 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
6'3 and 145 pound,
pity there is no brain there as well.
Stop posting such dumb questions.
2007-09-29 08:40:38 · answer #10 · answered by conranger1 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋