My stupid *** grandmother just called and said to my mom this is ur granny calling from heven. My Granny did not raise my mom my mom's grandmother raised her. My mom is very sad right now her granny just died last week at the age of 101. Her granny was her mom. Her birth mom was out getting drunk. How can I make my mom feel better. My granny is a heartless person all she cares about is when she can get drunk the next time. My mom was so close to her granny. I feel like calling my grandmother and tell her not to call us anymore and just stay away.Then my granny was laughing about making my mom cry. My dad is with my mom right now in there room trying to calm her down. Should I call that ***** and just tell her to leave my mom alone? I don't like people hurting my mom.
2007-09-29 03:26:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Tell your mom to hold her head high, and to forgive your gramma. People can be so incredibly hurtful, and calloused, even in a time of greif and mourning...When Gramma calls, you answer the phone, and don't say anything to her..be kind, because God says this is like pouring hot butter over their head...Be good to hoste who spitefully hurt you, and God will take care of the rest..when you do things, that please God, He takes care of the situation. Tell mom to ignore the old coot, and don't lower herself to that level...tell her to concentrate on her loss, and to think of all the good times she had with her granny...But don't let her talk to the other one...make up excuses, she already knows what she did...God Bless, and remember, be kind, that usually upsets their plans and she doesn't get the satisfatcion of knowing how much she hurt your mom. Don't eve respond to it
2007-09-29 03:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Just be there for your mum. I know it is extremely difficult to see a parent so upset, but try and be strong. Give her a cuddle and let her know that you love her, this'll mean a lot.
With your grandmother, don't call her as this is likely to make things worse. If she does call again then tell her that she has upset everybody and ask for an apology but don't be too hard on her, even if you really want to.
2007-09-29 03:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The Homeopathic remedy IGNATIA AMARA in 30 potency will make you Mom feel better with every dose. it is specifically prescribed when someone is grieving the death of a close loved one and works without any side effects or complications of any kind, you can buy it quite cheap from any health and herb stores most of them sell homeopathic remedies, one dose is three drops of the remedy in about a sip of water on an empty stomach, give it to her three times a day half an hour before or after meals and just watch your Mom feel better and better with every dose give it to her for atleast three days or till she is feeling 100% better. Keep me posted about her progress please.
Take Care and God Bless you and your loved ones.
2007-09-29 03:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by Soul Doctor 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What she did is a deal breaker. Dont deal with abusers put her on call block. Thats way over the line and she will never change. Shes a user and an abuser. If you call and cuss her she will simply "get off" on it.........
2007-09-29 04:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by theroadwetake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋